| Literature DB >> 35829711 |
Sarah B Wallwork1, Melanie Noel2, G Lorimer Moseley1.
Abstract
BACKGROUND: 'Everyday' pain experiences are potentially critical in shaping our beliefs and behaviours around injury and pain. Influenced by social, cultural and environmental contexts, they form the foundation of one's understanding of pain and injury that is taken into adulthood. How to best communicate to young children about their everyday pain experiences, in order to foster adaptive beliefs and behaviours, is unknown.Entities:
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Year: 2022 PMID: 35829711 PMCID: PMC9545644 DOI: 10.1002/ejp.2008
Source DB: PubMed Journal: Eur J Pain ISSN: 1090-3801 Impact factor: 3.651
FIGURE 1Outline of the Delphi survey procedure
The top three consensus ‘items’, listed under each ‘theme’, in order of highest consensus. See Supplementary File S2 for full list of consensus items
| Theme | Item | Consensus | Percentage consensus |
|---|---|---|---|
| Messages about ‘everyday pain’ | There is often an emotional component to pain (e.g. fear, anger, confusion) | Very important | 100 |
| Treating pain can help the child heal better and faster | Very important | 100 | |
| Knowledge that there is no danger | Very important | 94 | |
| Messages specific to when pain is not associated with injury | Staying calm/relaxed can help manage the pain messages | Very important | 94 |
| Sometimes emotions (i.e. anxiety) can contribute to these pains | Very important | 89 | |
| More emphasis that the child's pain is real | Very important | 88 | |
| Ways to communicate messages about pain | Can be communicated within an adult's response/reaction to a child when they are experiencing pain. (That is, messages can be communicated from an adult to a child when an adult attends to a child who is in pain.) | Very important | 94 |
| Role modelling | Very important | 94 | |
| A discussion ‘in the moment’ (of everyday pain) – led by trusted adult(s) | Very important | 88 | |
| Parent/caregiver response to a pain experience: general ideas | Address their fears | Very important | 100 |
| Verbal and non‐verbal: it is important that the caregiver communicates calmness and competence, so the child can trust that the caregiver is in charge and knows how to keep them safe and comfort | Very important | 100 | |
| Talk out loud about what you can see and what you are doing, talk them through your first aid process so they understand what is going on | Very important | 100 | |
| Parent/caregiver response to a pain experience: attend to the child and validate their pain and injury | Acknowledge their pain | Very important | 100 |
| Let them know you are taking it seriously | Very important | 100 | |
| Make sure they feel safe, heard and protected | Very important | 100 | |
| Parent/caregiver response to a pain experience: encourage exploring of emotions/interoception | Allow the child to cry and express their feelings (i.e. ‘It's okay to cry when we get hurt. It's good for us to show our feelings’) | Very important | 94 |
| Allow the child to react before responding to their injury (have an awareness that children draw upon the reactions of their caregivers to help form their own reactions and will pick up on the attitudes of those around them towards their pain) | Very important | 94 | |
| It is important for caregivers to validate emotions and connect to how emotions make our bodies feel inside | Very important | 94 | |
| Empowering children and promoting resilience | Teaching children that there are things they can do—giving them some autonomy over what might help them feel more comfortable | Very important | 100 |
| They might need some help with the injury to calm down. That is totally normal | Very important | 100 | |
| Let them know there are strategies that can be used to help reduce pain | Very important | 100 | |
| Tailoring communication about ‘everyday pain’ for different ages | Same principles still apply of allowing any emotions to come up and be felt, heard and therefore accepted | Very important | 94 |
| Differences based on developmental abilities and cognitive level, rather than age | Very important | 93 | |
| 2–3 years old (toddlers) | Simple communication during painful incident | Very important | 94 |
| 4–5 years old (pre‐schoolers) | Allow room/opportunity for questions coming from the child him/herself | Very important | 100 |
| 5–7 years old (school children) | Parents/carers should have an awareness that sometimes there might be more complex emotions or causes of an injury such as bullying or harassment in the playground | Very important | 94 |
| Differences in communicating about ‘everyday pain’ between genders | It should not be between gender, but will differ between individual children | Very important | 100 |
| Allow every child to express their pain how they choose to and not dismiss pain because of gender | Very important | 100 | |
| Their personalities dictate differences in messages and communication | Very important | 94 | |
| Behaviour and emotion modelling when observing another in pain | Help the child learn/assess when adult support is needed | Very important | 100 |
| Be cognizant of the ability of the child, even if they are very young, to learn from observing interactions/demonstrations | Very important | 100 | |
| Try not to minimize or over‐dramatize the experience | Very important | 100 | |
| Observing another in pain is an opportunity for empathy building | Teach children that they can help others feel better through providing kind words and physical assistance, (e.g. offering a wet paper towel for a sore knee) | Very important | 100 |
| It is important that children see that all emotions/big feelings (like pain and being scared when hurt) can be shared and that the adults are here to help | Very important | 100 | |
| Build empathy by asking the child what they think that person is feeling? What do they think might help? How do they see that person trying to feel better? What is safe and healthy to try? | Very important | 94 | |
| When observing another in pain—help children process the experience | Provide a safe space for the child to process what has happened even if they were just a bystander. Communicate openly about the pain experience being observed (if appropriate, perhaps broadcasting what is happening in calm and empathic way that the child observing can understand) | Very important | 100 |
| Provide honesty about the situation to help them process what is happening | Very important | 100 | |
| Debrief after the event if you think the event may have been a) traumatizing b) interesting to the child | Very important | 100 |