| Agender: An umbrella term to describe individuals who identify as not having a gender or as gender neutral. |
| Androgyne: An individual who is androgynous, meaning they identify and/or present as neither traditionally masculine nor feminine. |
| Asexual: An umbrella term used to describe someone who does not experience physical and/or sexual attraction. Some describe this as having a lack of attraction toward others or as the experience of not being sexually attracted to others. The term “Ace” is a colloquial abbreviation often used to describe someone who is asexual, in the same manner “straight” is used to represent someone who is heterosexual. Ace also includes people who are gray-asexual and demisexual (defined below). |
| Aromantic: A term used to describe someone who does not experience romantic attraction. It is sometimes colloquially abbreviated to “Aro.” |
| Being out: Not concealing one’s LGBTQ+ identity. |
| Being outed: When someone reveals an individual’s LGBTQ+ identity without their explicit consent. |
| Bisexual: An umbrella term used to describe someone who is emotionally, physically, and/or sexually attracted to more than one gender. |
| Bottom surgery: Also known as genital surgery, sex reassignment surgery, or preferably, gender confirmation surgery. Bottom surgery encompasses a number of procedures to alter anatomical traits and can be used for people of any gender. Generally, transmasculine bottom surgery is to transform the female genitalia and reconstruct them into those of a male, while transfeminine bottom surgery is to transform male genitalia and reconstruct them into those of a female. Bottom surgeries serve many purposes beyond the commonly assumed goal of creating cis-passing organs, including alleviating dysphoria. |
| Cisgender: A term used to describe someone whose gender identity and sex assigned at birth align (e.g., female and female-assigned at birth). |
| Cisnormativity: The assumption that all individuals are cisgender. |
| Coming out: Voluntarily making one’s sexual identity or gender identity known to others. Coming out to someone or in a certain venue does not mean that an individual is out to everyone in their life. |
| Deadname: The birth name of a transgender or nonbinary individual that they no longer use, which should not be used by others. |
| Demisexual: An identity describing someone who feels sexual attraction only to people with whom they have an emotional bond. Most demisexual people feel sexual attraction rarely compared with the general population, and some have little to no interest in sexual activity. |
| Drag king/queen: Performers and impersonators of gender. Drag is a form of theatrical and artistic expression in which an individual presents exaggerated feminine or masculine performances. Performing in drag is often used to break down the social norm of masculinity and femininity. Drag queens are overly feminized and often portrayed by men, but people of any gender can be drag queens. Drag kings dress and perform in stylized forms of masculinity and are often portrayed by women, but can also be portrayed by any gender. An important distinction to note is that “drag” is not synonymous with the term “trans”; trans is a personal identifier, while drag is a temporary and exaggerated performance of gender. |
| Enby: A gender nonbinary person or someone who does not identify their gender as a man or woman. It is the phonetic pronunciation of “NB” (nonbinary) and can sometimes be used as a term in place of “girl” or “boy.” It should be noted that not all who identify their gender as nonbinary are comfortable with this term. |
| Gay: A term used to describe individuals who are primarily romantically, physically, and/or sexually attracted to members of the same gender. This can be used to describe someone of any gender identity. |
| Gender: Socially constructed cultural characteristics that denote identities, e.g., women or men (note: this is different from sex-associated terms, including “female” and “male”). Gender is also used more broadly to denote a range of identities that do not correspond to established ideas of male and female, can vary from society to society, and can change over time. |
| Gender fluid: Describes someone whose gender identification and presentation varies over time. |
| Gender dysphoria: A condition in which one feels discomfort or distress because their emotional and psychological gender identity is different from their biological sex assigned at birth. |
| Gender expression: The external appearance of one’s gender identity that can be expressed through one’s behavior, clothing, haircut, or voice, and which may or may not conform to the culturally and socially defined behaviors and characteristics typically associated with being either masculine or feminine. |
| Gender normative: The assumption that individual gender identity aligns with societal expectations for what it means to be a girl/woman/female or boy/man/male. |
| Gender spectrum: This term is an inclusive way to refer to the variation that exists within gender identity. It goes beyond the gender binary by representing gender as a continuum. |
| Gray-sexual or gray-asexual: A term that describes someone who identifies with the area between asexuality and sexuality. Some may prefer this term because they experience sexual attraction very rarely, only under specific circumstances, or of an intensity so low that it is ignorable. Sometimes abbreviated as “gray-ace.” |
| Heteronormativity: Norms and practices that assume binary alignment of biological sex, gender identity, and gender roles and that establish heterosexuality as a fundamental and natural norm. |
| Heterosexism: The assumption that all people are or should be heterosexual. Heterosexism excludes the needs, concerns, and life experiences of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and queer people, while it gives advantages to heterosexual people. It is often perceived as a subtle form of oppression that reinforces realities of silence and invisibility. |
| Heterosexual: A term that describes someone who is emotionally, physically, and/or sexually attracted to members of a different gender. |
| Homophobia: Describes a wide range of negative attitudes or behaviors directed toward people who are or are perceived to be sexual minorities. This term is often colloquially used to describe fear, hatred, disgust, or discomfort with any sexual identities that do not fit in with the dominant heteronormative narrative. |
| Homoromantic: This term refers to an individual who is romantically attracted to someone of the same gender. This is not the same as sexual attraction. An individual who does not experience sexual attraction may still experience romantic attraction. |
| Homosexual: An outdated term that describes a sexual orientation in which a person feels physically and emotionally attracted to people of the same gender. Sometimes expressed as MSM (men who have sex with men) or WSW (women who have sex with women) in medical literature. |
| Identity: How an individual defines who they are, their characteristics, the way they think about themselves, and importantly, the way they are viewed by the society in which they operate. |
| Internalized homophobia: Negative social attitudes, including stereotypes, beliefs, stigma, and prejudice about homosexuality and LGBTQ+ people, that a person with same-sex attraction turns inward toward themselves, whether or not they identify as LGBTQ+. |
| Intersex: Describes someone whose combination of chromosomes, gonads, hormones, internal sex organs, and genitals differs from the two expected patterns of male and female. |
| Lesbian: A term used to describe people who identify as women and are attracted romantically, physically, or sexually to others who identify as women. Some women prefer to use the term “queer” or “gay” instead of lesbian. |
| LGBTQ+ ally: An ally can be someone who accepts the LGBTQ+ person, or someone who personally and actively advocates for equal rights and fair treatment of LGBTQ+ individuals. People who identify as LGBTQ+ may use different thresholds of qualification for an ally. |
| Misgender: To refer to someone using a word or pronoun that does not reflect the gender with which they identify. |
| Nonbinary: A term used to describe individuals who do not identify their gender as man or woman. Additionally, people who identify their gender as nonbinary may identify as being both man and woman, somewhere in between man and woman, or as someone whose gender does not fall within the categories of man and woman. |
| Passing (gender identity): Occurs when someone is recognized as the gender identity that they identify as (e.g., a trans man being recognized by others as a man). |
| Passing (sexual identity): Occurs when someone of a minority identity is assumed to be a member of a majority identity (e.g., someone who identifies as gay is assumed to be straight). |
| Pansexual: Describes someone whose romantic, physical, and/or sexual attraction is not defined by sex or gender identity. |
| Performative allyship: Performative allyship, also sometimes referred to as ally theater, is the practice of flaunting supposed allyship, but not following through with actions indicative of true allyship; in other words, allyship that exists as an occasional public “performance” instead of a continuous, well-informed labor. |
| Queer: An umbrella term used to describe individuals who identify as nonstraight or who have nonnormative gender identity. It is important to note that this term historically was offensive, and while some members of the community continue to find this term offensive, others take pride in reclaiming it. |
| Questioning: A term used to describe people who are in the process of exploring their LGBTQ+ identity. |
| Sex: Classification based on the structural and functional characteristics of a person or organism that allow assignment as either male or female. Characteristics include chromosomal complement, reproductive organs, and hormone levels. Historically, individuals have been categorized as male or female; however, it is important to note that an individual’s sex may not align with their gender identity. |
| Sexuality spectrum (Kinsey scale): Also called the Heterosexual-Homosexual Rating Scale. The scale was created by Alfred Kinsley and is used to describe a person’s sexual orientation with respect to one’s experience or response at a given time. The scale ranges from 0 (completely heterosexual) to 6 (completely homosexual) and includes an X value that represents no sociosexual contact or reactions. Kinsey recognized that even when characterizing sexuality as a spectrum, there are still people whose sexualities are not fully captured by the scale. |
| Straight privilege: A term used to describe societal privilege that benefits individuals who identify as or are perceived to identify as straight but that is denied to members of the LGBTQ+ community. |
| They/them pronouns: May be used as a singular pronoun for individuals who identify as gender nonbinary or individuals who want to use a pronoun that is not gendered or for individuals who use both he/they or she/they. This pronoun has recently been added to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary and is also now an official part of the APA style guide. Of note, verbs are conjugated in the plural even with the use of singular they. For example: “Alyx is coming to the party. They are bringing soda.” |
| Top surgery: A term used to describe surgical procedures done on the breasts, including breast augmentation surgery or bilateral mastectomy and male chest reconstruction. |
| Trans man/transgender man: An individual who was not assigned male at birth, but identifies as a male. |
| Trans woman/transgender woman: An individual who was not assigned female at birth, but identifies as female. |
| Transfeminine: This adjective describes any individual not assigned female at birth who identifies more with the feminine part of the gender spectrum. It can sometimes describe trans women and also people who do not identify as female but do identify as more feminine. Transfeminine individuals can use a variety of pronouns. |
| Transgender or trans: A term describing a person who lives as a member of a gender other than that expected based on anatomical sex designated at birth. Notably, being trans does not require a “transition.” An individual can be transgender and not “live as” their identity because of legal, familial, societal, health, etc., reasons. The term “transgender” is an adjective, not a noun, and the term “transgendered” is never appropriate. |
| Transition: For people who identify as transgender, this refers to the process of coming to recognize, accept, and express one’s gender identity. Sometimes referred to as gender affirmation process. |
| Transmasculine: This adjective describes any individual not assigned male at birth who identifies more with the masculine part of the gender spectrum. It can sometimes describe trans men and also people who do not identify as male but do identify as more masculine. Transmasculine individuals can use a variety of pronouns |
| Transphobia: Describes fear, aversion, hatred, violence, anger, or discomfort felt or expressed toward people who do not conform to society’s gender expectations. |
| Two-spirit: Native American (American Indian/First Nations/Native American) two-spirit people are male, female, and sometimes intersexed individuals who combine activities of both men and women with traits unique to their status as two-spirit people. In most tribes, they are considered neither men nor women; they occupy a distinct, alternative gender status. In tribes where two-spirit males and females are referred to with the same term, this status is considered a third gender. In other cases, two-spirit females are referred to with a distinct term and, therefore, constitute a fourth gender. Although there are important variations in two-spirit roles across North America, they share some common traits: specialized work roles, gender variation, spiritual sanction, and same-sex relationships. |