| 1. Community | Shared mission |
We’re here to do the right thing for folks. I would say being surrounding by people that think as I do, and having the blessing of time to do what we’re called to do is amazingly helpful
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| Coworkers |
I have nice friendships with the nurses. I know about the nurses, I know about their families, most of them have brothers and sisters that work at the hospital. I connect with the nurses and that keeps me going
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| Medical community |
I never need to be in a place where I am too prideful or embarrassed to ask for help and to ask for a second opinion . . . I think that also leads to satisfaction or joy in what we do because I never have to think that I am absolutely the last one
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| 2. Visible impact | Fulfilling unmet needs |
I find just those interactions with both patients and their family members extremely rewarding. Some of it is, as I said, filling a need that doesn’t get met elsewhere in our medical system. That sense of being very useful
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| Gratefulness |
But then there’s also those times when people will actually verbally tell you you’ve made such a big difference in my life, I don’t know what I would have done without you. Or you know of course those are when you are better than just regular routine, positive interactions.
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| 3. Connection | Empathy |
I really try to work hard to find something that I can connect, in some way to connect with every patient. It might be we have kids the same age, it might be we both have parents with dementia, it might not be something social at all, it might be oh where did you use to live? Or what’s your hobby? It could be just about anything. And that little window will let you in for some of the hard things that we have to do in this world
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| Patient interactions |
I think that probably a third piece that makes the job meaningful or worthwhile or helps me deal with the stresses are just being in relationship with people. There are a few jobs, there are a few vocations where there’s instant and expected trust and confidentiality where people come and tell you their stuff, clergy and attorney and a doctor. Those are the three relationships in our society that are legally protected. I count it a privilege to meet people who don’t . . . they have no other reason to trust me than the initials behind my name, who will come in and tell me things that are very vulnerable or very important to them, I think with that trust comes great responsibility of how to delicately handle that information. They’re trusting you because they need help. They’re vulnerable. Those relationships and that trust fuels me as well
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| 4. Variety | Curiosity |
The teaching is, it’s a blast and it keeps you on your toes. I mean it keeps you reading and learning, trying to stay ahead of these whippersnappers who are learning all the latest creatives. We’re old guys with old brains.
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| 5. Calling and Spirituality | No subthemes |
It means that I am not only practicing medicine, but fed by what I do. Emotionally and spiritually fed by what I do.
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| 6. Sense of empowerment | Perspective |
I believe I’m a cup half full kind of person. I do think that makes a difference. I try to find meaning even amidst suffering or loss or heartache. As a psychiatrist in prior years, when I did psychotherapy with folks I helped people learn how to navigate loss. I think that’s a huge part in avoiding burnout, just being able to reframe things
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| Emotional regulation |
That is really frustrating but I can’t do anything about it so I just have to let it go.
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| Career Stages |
I always enjoyed my work, but it’s got a different meaning as I get older than it did when I was younger. I think just aging in general softens the rough edges, like sandpaper almost.
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| Autonomy |
I feel heard. I think having a sense of autonomy and having things presented in a way that is respectful of me is important, and for the most part happens. On the rare occasions it doesn’t, I speak up and am heard mostly. That give sense of joy and meaning.
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| Attitude |
I think if you have the right attitude toward the patients and you have the average amount of training and skills in medicine and you’re not overly concerned with making a lot of money and you have family obligations that require you to keep your practice within a scope of time that you can actually have family time, I think you can manufacture a situation where you can maintain your happiness and joy and not burn out
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| Trade-offs |
Large group, less autonomy but there’s more cushion, if you will. Smaller group, more autonomy but probably more financial stress, at least on the individual provider, so I’m okay with where I am right now.
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