| Literature DB >> 35108299 |
Elizabeth M Westrupp1,2,3, Christopher J Greenwood1,2,4, Matthew Fuller-Tyszkiewicz1,2, Tomer S Berkowitz1,2, Lauryn Hagg1, George Youssef1,2,4.
Abstract
Parenting interventions offer an evidence-based method for the prevention and early intervention of child mental health problems, but to-date their population-level effectiveness has been limited by poor reach and engagement, particularly for fathers, working mothers, and disadvantaged families. Tailoring intervention content to parents' context offers the potential to enhance parent engagement and learning by increasing relevance of content to parents' daily experiences. However, this approach requires a detailed understanding of the common parenting situations and issues that parents face day-to-day, which is currently lacking. We sought to identify the most common parenting situations discussed by parents on parenting-specific forums of the free online discussion forum, Reddit. We aimed to understand perspectives from both mothers and fathers, and thus retrieved publicly available data from r/Daddit and r/Mommit. We used latent Dirichlet allocation to identify the 10 most common topics discussed in the Reddit posts, and completed a manual text analysis to summarize the parenting situations (defined as involving a parent and their child aged 0-18 years, and describing a potential/actual issue). We retrieved 340 (r/Daddit) and 578 (r/Mommit) original posts. A model with 31 latent Dirichlet allocation topics was best fitting, and 24 topics included posts that met our inclusion criteria for manual review. We identified 45 unique but broadly defined parenting situations. The majority of parenting situations were focused on basic childcare situations relating to eating, sleeping, routines, sickness, and toilet training; or related to how to respond to child negative emotions or difficult behavior. Most situations were discussed in relation to infant or toddler aged children, and there was high consistency in the themes raised in r/Daddit and r/Mommit. Our results offer potential to tailor parenting interventions in a meaningful way, creating opportunities to develop content and resources that are directly relevant to parents' lived experiences.Entities:
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Year: 2022 PMID: 35108299 PMCID: PMC8809584 DOI: 10.1371/journal.pone.0262529
Source DB: PubMed Journal: PLoS One ISSN: 1932-6203 Impact factor: 3.240
Fig 1Data processing and analysis pipeline.
Fig 2Perplexity scores as a function of number of topics estimated.
Summary of topic words, themes, and situation descriptions related to parenting situations described in Reddit parenting posts.
| Topic (% of tokens) | LDA topic words | Topic themes | Descriptions of parenting situations |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 (4.1%) | Waking in night | Child sleep: waking in night wanting to play, feed or be held. | |
| 3 (2.8%) | Sickness and toilet training | Use of strategies for managing child with ’bad’ cold or other sickness (e.g., runny nose). | |
| Issues or stages of toilet training. | |||
| 4 (2.8%) | Child refusing food or whining | Child refusing one food/part of a meal | |
| Child spending day crying/fussy; whinging if parent says no to something they want. | |||
| 5 (3.1%) | Gender stereotypes | Parent concern about gender stereotypes (boy/girl): e.g., son teased for wanting to wear nail polish; parent wants child to be involved in sports, not just gender-stereotypical activities. | |
| 7 (2.9%) | Managing multiple children and sibling conflict. | Children (of different ages in months/years) only want to be picked up by mum. | |
| Child is acting younger than age (in months/years)—sleep or toilet training regression after birth of sibling. | |||
| Managing multiple children of different ages with different needs and conflict. | |||
| 8 (3.2%) | Managing child emotions | Parent trying to manage child emotions/anxiety in new situations or teaching new skill (e.g., toilet training). | |
| 9 (3.4%) | Parent guilt about time to self | Parent feeling guilty about wanting time to themselves, away from child. | |
| 10 (3.7%) | How to talk to upset children | How to talk to kids when they’re upset, want something they can’t have, or won’t do as asked. | |
| 11 (3.3%) | Child refusing food | Child refusing to eat, breastfeed or feed from bottle. | |
| 12 (3.5%) | Talking to children about change | Talking to child about moving to new daycare (e.g. leaving friends). | |
| 13 (3.1%) | Setting rules | How to manage rules around safe rooms to play in the house. | |
| How to manage rules for putting toys away after play. | |||
| 15 (2.8%) | Child lying and phone use | Managing a child who has lied about something they did. | |
| Managing child’s use of phone. | |||
| 17 (3.0%) | Bed-time and juggling multiple children | Child refusing to go to bed on time; can’t go to sleep. | |
| Advice on activities can do to manage multiple children at home. | |||
| 20 (3.1%) | Physical support to child learning or upset | How to hold toddler when crying/having tantrum. | |
| How to support child learning to walk. | |||
| Child hitting herself when upset and crying. | |||
| Managing when a child prefers (to be held when crying) by one parent over another. | |||
| 21 (2.9%) | Books to introduce difficult subjects | Child asking about death while reading books. | |
| Books to prepare a child for separation from parents. | |||
| 22 (3.0%) | How to support a crying baby | How to support baby crying during tummy time. | |
| 23 (3.7%) | Managing child and parent autonomy; responding to child negative emotions and behaviour | How to respond to child always asking ’why’ about everything. | |
| Thinking about how to manage strong feelings without always hitting their child. | |||
| Should parents ask baby’s permission before giving massage. | |||
| Feeling judged for wanting time away from son. | |||
| Child rude, disrespectful when asked to do something or when parent says no. | |||
| Managing child lying about use of their phone . | |||
| 24 (3.3%) | Child develop-mental stages | Weaning a child from breastfeeding. | |
| Child going backwards in toileting. | |||
| Child sleep and tantrums backwards (regression) after birth of sibling. | |||
| 25 (3.6%) | Managing child sleep | Daughter will not sleep through the night; went to see doctor. | |
| 26 (3.1%) | Child or parent frustration | Baby frustrated trying tummy time. | |
| Father frustrated with daughter at bed-time or crying only with him. | |||
| Parent frustrated child won’t listen to "no". | |||
| Son always climbing on something, parent worried about falls. | |||
| 28 (4.0%) | Creating routine | Mum at home and trying to create routine for the day. | |
| 29 (2.7%) | Strategies for calming child | Ideas for good strategies to calm child. | |
| 30 (3.5%) | Child wants own way | Parent feels child wants their own way all the time. | |
| 31 (2.6%) | Burping baby | Advice for how to best burp baby. |
Child ages and subreddit source reflected in included topic themes.
| Topic | Topic themes | Child ages | subreddit source |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Waking in night | Infant (8); Toddler (2) | r/Mommit; r/Daddit |
| 3 | Sickness and toilet training | Infant (4); Toddler (5) | r/Mommit; r/Daddit |
| 4 | Child refusing food or whining | Infant (1); Toddler (2); Young child (1) | r/Mommit; r/Daddit |
| 5 | Gender stereotypes | Young child (6) | r/Mommit; r/Daddit |
| 7 | Managing multiple children and sibling conflict. | Infant (2); Toddler (4); Young child (2) | r/Daddit |
| 8 | Managing child emotions | Toddler (2) | r/Mommit |
| 9 | Parent guilt about time to self | Infant (2); Toddler (1) | r/Mommit |
| 10 | How to talk to upset children | Toddler (1); Young child (3) | r/Mommit; r/Daddit |
| 11 | Child refusing food | Infant (6); Toddler (1) | r/Mommit; r/Daddit |
| 12 | Talking to children about change | Toddler (1) | r/Mommit |
| 13 | Setting rules | Toddler (2); Young child (1) | r/Mommit; r/Daddit |
| 15 | Child lying and phone use | Older child (3) | r/Daddit |
| 17 | Bed-time and juggling multiple children | Toddler (1); Young child (3) | r/Mommit |
| 20 | Physical support to child learning or upset | Infant (2); Toddler (2) | r/Mommit; r/Daddit |
| 21 | Books to introduce difficult subjects | Toddler (1); Young child (1) | r/Mommit |
| 22 | How to support a crying baby | Infant (1) | r/Mommit |
| 23 | Managing child and parent autonomy; responding to child negative emotions and behaviour | Infant (1); Toddler (2); Young child (2) | r/Mommit; r/Daddit |
| 24 | Child developmental stages | Infant (1); Toddler (2); Young child (1) | r/Mommit; r/Daddit |
| 25 | Managing child sleep | Toddler (1) | r/Mommit |
| 26 | Child or parent frustration | Infant (1); Toddler (4); | r/Mommit; r/Daddit |
| 28 | Creating routine | Infant (1) | r/Mommit |
| 29 | Strategies for calming child | Infant (1); Toddler (1) | r/Mommit |
| 30 | Child wants own way | Infant (1); Toddler (1) | r/Daddit |
| 31 | Burping baby | Infant (1) | r/Daddit |
aChild age categories were coded as follows: Infant (0–11 months); Toddler (1–3 years); Young child (4–10 years); Older child (10+ years). Numbers in parentheses indicate the number of children mentioned within posts in the given topic related to that age group.