| Expressed feelings | Sadness |
‘I could no longer do my passion because I used to dance a lot, I could no longer dance’. (female, 61 years old, invalid)
’It affects life, the quality of life, not to mention the moral suffering’. (female, 52 years old, employed)
’I cry but … well it’s fine, it’s over but it’s still painful and it’s a real choice … it has an impact on psychological suffering, physically, we’re not in a wheelchair, physically, we’re normal, it still has an impact on daily life’. (male, 47 years old, nurse) |
| Resentment |
’When you are outside in a wheelchair … when you see France behind on the problems, the pavements, the doors that have to be pulled up! You can’t go to the toilet because it’s not provided. Now they are obliged in the new structures’. (female, 61 years old, invalid)
’You need to get a haircut; how do you do it? You take your hair and then you put a bowl on your head and then you cut what’s sticking out. I swear you have to see it to believe it’. (female, 61 years old, invalid)
’Where I work, in a research center, there are many areas where I could work, but the situation means that the qualifications are lower. And then, with secretarial diplomas, what do you do with that? You don’t do anything’. (male, 47 years old, nurse) |
| Regrets | ’Afterwards, yes, I think I could have done more, been less of a failure than I was and done studies that would have taken me further maybe … but it’s sure that if I had been less absent in secondary school and high school…’. (female, 51 years old, medical secretary)’I would have been perhaps less lost, less drowned in school’. (female, 51 years old, medical secretary)’It’s more afterwards, as I’m getting older, that I say to myself that maybe I should have been more careful, and now I’m careful about my son’. (female, 53 years old, invalid) |
| Fear |
’I’m worried that I’m losing all my teeth, they’re dying as I go along…’. (female, 37 years old, military)’I’m worried that the implants won’t work, and I’ll have a total brace. And then I’m afraid I’ll have hip replacements soon enough and then the pain I have is not getting better, on the contrary, it’s getting worse. So, I’m not very optimistic about old age’. (male, 47 years old, nurse)’What’s really difficult is the transmission of the disease knowingly, like all genetic diseases I think’. (female, 29 years old, assistant)’I’m afraid that as the years go by it will get worse, because right now I’m young, I’m a bit energetic but I’m afraid it will have consequences later on’. (female, 18 years old, school) |
| Anger |
’They don’t want to keep crippled people at work’. (female, 61 years old, invalid)’You need a haircut; how do you do it? You take your hair and then you put a bowl on your head and then you cut what’s sticking out. I swear you have to see it to believe it’. (female, 61 years old, invalid)’To be less blindfolded and say, well, I’ve learned that A+B=C and well, that will never make D, there will never be any brackets for a little C or I don’t know what. But then, whether it’s a dentist or a doctor, it’s the same thing. You realize that it’s books, books, books … lawyer, article 1, article 2. It’s impressive how dentists and doctors are trained not to be curious, not to learn anything other than what they’ve learned in books, I don’t understand, maybe it’s a trick or I don’t know … that’s the biggest criteria I would say. But be curious, look elsewhere, listen to the patient’. (female, 52 years old, employed) |
| Access to care | Financial aspects |
’I even have a certificate that I have a dentist who told me that I was not profitable for him and that he could not treat me’. (female, 52 years old, employed)’But if you don’t have a full wallet, nobody will treat you’. (female, 52 years old, employed) |
| Technical aspects | ’The dentists didn’t believe me, X-rays, healthy teeth, healthy exteriors, no cavities… And no matter how hard I tried to explain to them that I had spontaneous dental necrosis. Once, I went to 15 dentists but uh… I couldn’t work anymore; it’s really disabling because you can’t have a life anymore’. (female, 52 years old, employed)’They don’t want to hear, especially in my area, I think they are not specialized at all. And then, there is still a lack of information in my area and so they don’t want to hear that rickets can be the cause of many oral problems’. (female, 29 years old, assistant) |
| Quality of life | Oral health-related quality of life | ’You can’t eat croutons, you can’t eat things that hurt because I have a lot of bones sticking out, I have exostoses everywhere’. (female, 61 years old, invalid)’So, crunching on a sandwich, it’s always been since I got my bridge in the 85s, you can’t crunch on apples. There are things you can’t do but that’s okay’. (female, 48 years old, academic)’I can’t chew left and right anymore, I tried to take a piece of meat out and it was the tooth I took out’. (female, 53 years old, invalid)’It prevents me from sleeping, it prevents me from eating well. Instead of painkillers, sometimes I drink alcohol to knock myself out, which makes me very tired, but at least I recover more quickly in the morning to go to work’. (female, 36 years old, employed)’Since I have a black tooth, I avoid smiling too much, but we keep smiling anyway, that’s life’. (female, 53 years old, invalid)’It wasn’t cavities, so … it was a pain that came on suddenly … it was abscesses, so there you go and obviously it came on a Saturday night at 2 o’clock’. (female, 36 years old, employed)’It’s not very aesthetic, it’s always, in terms of seduction, it’s true that it’s not fabulous but, well, it’s not just the smile’. (female, 39 years old, administrative agent) |
| General quality of life | ’There are many things in everyday life that make life difficult, and I use my electric wheelchair to do my shopping’. (female, 61 years old, invalid)’And morally, I suffer enormously, I have a lot of physical pain, especially in my leg, sciatica, because it’s the lumbar, and I would have to undergo an operation, but I don’t want to because it has already weakened me so much in terms of walking’. (female, 61 years old, invalid)’There was a time when I had to take all my treatment, all the time in front of others, I had to hide so that no one would ask me questions. No, I had a bad time of it, I had a really bad time of it’. (female, 36 years old, employed)’With my wife, we decided not to have children, for example. Since it’s a disease that is on the X dominant gene and therefore, we have a one in two chance of having a sick child and I don’t want a sick child’. (male, 47 years old, nurse) |
| Limitations | Due to disabilities | ’I had to get my ears fitted because, the disease affected my ears too’. (female, 61 years old, invalid)’And even to cook, I can’t do it because I can’t stand up, because I walk with a walker at home, I have one downstairs and one upstairs, because walking with canes how do you want to hold a pan’.(male, 19, unemployed) |
| Due to tiredness | ’It’s a complicated time to be tired all the time and then, of course, the others don’t understand, the mockery’ (female, 37 years old, military)’But it’s a lot of suffering and a lot of fatigue. It’s especially the fatigue of not sleeping for months on end. I have a tooth that needs to be treated, which has been treated, but it’s still there’. (female, 52 years old, employed)’Fatigue has affected my studies. It’s affected my work, it’s created a lot of work stoppages and brain fatigue which means that I’m really weakened intellectually some days, with a lowered morale’. (female, 52 years old, employed) |
| Social insertion | Professional life | ’the disease has affected my work; it creates a lot of downtime and brain fatigue, so I’m really weakened intellectually some days’. (female, 61 years old, invalid)’I can’t take a full-time job for example so … it’s complicated’. (female, 37 years old, military)’You’re a girl, you’re disabled, you’ll be a secretary, that’s it. I did not have a choice. It wasn’t what I wanted to do at all’. (female, 52 years old, employed)’I was stopped after my hip replacement and … they put me on disability and so now I realize that I couldn’t really work at a job all day, it’s becoming difficult’. (female, 39 years old, administrative agent) |
| School life | ’I often missed school and as the disease was not very well known until the age of… I knew my first class; I was nine years old’. (female, 52 years old, employed)’It caused me to have absences, so I managed … the school level it was but I found myself in a wheelchair regularly, I had to change schools. I was in a school where there was no lift. So, there was no wheelchair access, so I had to change schools. And then, I shut myself up in a shell’. (female, 11 years old, school)’I had to redo my school year because I had a follow-up in the rehabilitation Centre, so I was a year late’. (female, 18 years old, school) |
| Care course | Oral care course | ’They didn’t understand why the gums recede, why my teeth die quite often … we have to re-explain each time’.’It’s months and months of suffering, months of not believing, months of trying to explain a disease they didn’t know about with supposedly healthy teeth’.’The dentists didn’t believe me… And no matter how much I explained to them that I had spontaneous dental necrosis PF. Once, I went to 15 dentists… I couldn’t work anymore; it’s really disabling because you can’t have a life anymore’. (female, 61 years old, invalid)’They started pulling my teeth and they realized that it wasn’t a good principle and I… I’ve been to a lot of dentists in my life. Apart from offering me treatment or treating the cavity or … they didn’t understand. I could explain that I had a genetic disease, but dentists don’t look at it like doctors do, they don’t look at the disease at all’. (female, 36 years old, employed) |
| General care course | ’My mother had taken me to all the hospitals, no one knew about the disease and so they said they had to come back when I was finished growing and operate on me’. (female, 11 years old, school)’I was dragged from Lyon, Marseille, Paris, I went to a lot of places and they put me in a center, they spread my legs, they put me in plaster casts, they did a lot of tests. There was even a surgeon who wanted to remove my hips and put on plastic hips. It was all and then nothing. Everyone wanted to get my case to say, ‘Yes, I discovered a case‘. (female, 52 years old, employed)‘The doctor treating me doesn’t know about this disease, in fact, there are many doctors … it’s a rare disease so they don’t know about it’. (female, 11 years old, school) |
| Feelings about oneself and others | Recognition and gratitude | ’Thanks to this doctor who defended my case in commission, and I was able to continue working’. (female, 53 years old, invalid)’I am happy to be followed by a dentist who knows a little bit about pathology, and he is super careful, he doesn’t hurt compared to other dentists, no, no… I prefer to take 1 h to come here and have a good dentist’. (female, 61 years old, invalid)’The service is very good, we have the direct mobile numbers of the doctors, it’s not everywhere. We’re great, we’re really lucky. And even, during the holidays, I needed to call because she had toothache, she made sure to find us a doctor, it’s great, it’s rare, we are really lucky to be here’. (female, 11 years old, school)’Here I feel really listened to and above all, I am informed about the consequences of the disease and this allows me to adapt my lifestyle’. (female, 11 years old, school)’Here I feel like I’m on another planet. I come here, they tell me about rickets normally, they tell me that there are solutions, they know what it can produce in my mouth and everything, I’ve never heard that. I don’t feel like I’m crazy’. (female, 48 years old, academic) |
| Self-esteem | ’I was always very self-conscious about my size so I was all dressed up when I went to work and anywhere else for that matter’. (female, 61 years old, invalid)’If I don’t have anyone coming to see me, I don’t open my shutters all day, I cry, I just do it’. (male, 19 years old, unemployed)’If you ask for someone to do your washing, then already psychologically it’s very hard and well, everything goes with what’. (female, 37 years old, military)’But before, I had to turn around to see if there was anyone behind me, so that no one could see how I was walking’. (female, 18-year-old school)’Well, when I was at school, people didn’t necessarily understand. So … especially because you could see it because I had bowed legs, unlike my sister, you can’t really see it, but I could really see it and I was teased’. (female, 18 years old. school) |
| Attitude and behavior toward the disease | | ’I never accepted the disease. Morally, it destroyed me’. (female, 61 years old, invalid)’Morally, you are… I have never accepted the disease. Morally, it destroyed me’. (female, 61 years old, invalidity)’But as I grew up, even before I had the operation, I understood that it’s something you can’t choose, and I grew up with it and I ended up accepting it on my own’. (male, 19 years old, unemployed)’I’ve always loved humans, so I’ve never really had any… I’ve always loved humans, so I’ve never really hated them, but it’s true that I’ve often put myself in the background to avoid talking and smiling stupidly when you know very well that things aren’t going well, that all you want to do is go out the window’. (female, 37 years old, military)’Teeth are a drag on your life. When you fight tooth pain, you can’t fight it, because I’ve got two broken femoral necks, I’ve got fractured neck bones, you can’t fight pain anywhere else and like dogs biting you everywhere’. (female, 52 years old, employed)’I’ve always lived with pain, so I’ve dealt with it’. (male, 47 years old, nurse) |