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How can the neonatal experience affect parents’ mental health and how can this be improved? |
Counselling and support should be offered straight away. Parents are traumatised and very few nurses can actually deal with them. I have had a baby in NICU twice. I had PTSD from the first but was offered zero support before, during or after. Counselling should be part of the process. | 7 (6–7) | 6.36 (0.84) | 1 |
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How can hospital systems and procedures support families in the neonatal period? |
I think we will look back on this time and consider it grotesque that we would ask mums to leave babies behind and drive home each night going against the power of parental love. | 7 (6–7) | 6.32 (0.93) | 2 |
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How can families and health professionals work together when babies are in hospital? |
The people in SCN are very caring, but you are made to feel as if you’re not needed. You need to assert yourself to look after your own baby. | 7 (6–7) | 6.31 (0.97) | 3 |
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How can parents be best supported to bond with their babies? |
Feeling like my baby wasn’t my baby and having to ask permission to touch my baby. | 7 (6–7) | 6.24 (0.97) | 4 |
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What is important about staff-parent relationships and interactions during the neonatal period? |
Complacency of staff who work in NICU / that is their norm. They work there every day so it’s normal for them - it’s not normal for a new mum in a NICU so having compassion from staff no matter how Groundhog Day it is, is really important
| 6 (6–7) | 6.22 (1.01) | 5 |
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How can medical care for babies be improved? |
My daughter had CHD as well as being prem. This was very hard to deal with, and a challenge for what needed to be prioritised first. | 6 (6–7) | 6.17 (1.07) | 6 |
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How can families be supported in practical ways during the neonatal period? |
The juggle of my toddler & unborn child whilst admitted pre birth and again post birth when the baby was in NICU was challenging. My toddler could only come for limited periods to visit & every time he had to go home whilst I was admitted, we both cried. During an already stressful time, this stress on all of us was really hard. | 6 (5–7) | 5.88 (1.08) | 10 |
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What information and support do parents need about feeding? |
The premature feeding process and needs are different to that of a full term baby initially and there is little knowledge of this, for example, lack of sucking reflex and its consequence on milk or bottle feeding
| 6 (5–7) | 5.87 (1.10) | 11 |
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How can feelings of isolation and separation be understood and improved for all members of the family? |
My husband wasn’t able to stay at the hospital with me and our baby. We were airlifted to a city away from home to have our daughter due to a full NICU in our home city. We were both traumatised and needed each other and being apart was hard
| 6 (5–7) | 5.86 (1.06) | 12 |
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How and where should mothers receive postnatal care? |
Little help from staff during postnatal stay. As my baby was in NICU I was very much left to myself since I was ’well’
| 6 (5–7) | 5.77 (1.14) | 14 |
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How can healthcare during pregnancy be improved? |
Even though I had a high risk pregnancy there really was no education given on what the risks or likelihood my babies would have to spend time in the NICU/SCN and what to expect. It was overwhelming and traumatic. | 6 (5–7) | 5.72 (1.15) | 17 |
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How can families be best prepared for taking their babies home from the neonatal unit? |
Transitioning home was very, very stressful. Which is probably the opposite of what people would think it should be. Seeing your baby go through so much, and also knowing how quickly things can go terribly wrong can make going home a terrifying prospect. | 6 (5–6) | 5.63 (1.07) | 19 |
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How can mothers’ physical recovery after birth be improved? |
Rehabilitation post c-section was non-existent due to the stress, worry & prioritization of our baby in the NICU. I am still suffering terribly with chronic lower back problems due to poor functioning core, from doing nothing except sit in hospital chairs or the car for 2 months+post c-section. | 6 (5–6) | 5.52 (1.23) | 24 |
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Early Childhood Period
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How can neonatal conditions affect the development of children’s skills and abilities and how can this be improved? |
Despite regular follow up, it was hard to know if we should expect any learning difficulties etc as she progressed through to starting kindergarten. | 6 (6–7) | 6.15 (0.96) | 7 |
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How can parents have good mental health and emotional wellbeing? |
… the pain, distrust and trauma from your baby being extremely unwell never really leaves you, and it definitely impacts how you parent
| 6 (5–7) | 6.00 (0.97) | 8* |
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How can neonatal conditions affect young children’s health and medical outcomes, and how can this be improved? |
Immune problems, more prone to becoming ill and when they do become ill it seems to hit them a bit harder. | 6 (5–7) | 6.00 (1.00) | 8* |
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How can neonatal conditions affect feeding for young children, and how can this be improved? |
Issues associated with weight gain/feeding/diet. My son came home with a NGT. We established breastfeeding but because of his RDS he struggles to gain weight and feed well because he was always so tired. | 6 (5–7) | 5.76 (1.10) | 15 |
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What knowledge do community health professionals need to support families with young children? |
Lack of knowledge in Child Health Nurses with premature babies, they cause unnecessary anxiety with their comparison to full term babies or their misunderstanding of what is expected of a premature baby post discharge. | 6 (5–6) | 5.66 (1.10) | 18 |
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What financial impacts do families experience? |
Financial impact of not being able to go back to work with day care not being a sustainable option for our baby’s health due to her weaker immune system. | 6 (5–7) | 5.58 (1.28) | 20 |
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What knowledge do parents need to feel confident about supporting their children’s health and development? |
Lack of information on what to expect long term in the preschool years. Felt that there was focus on leaving NICU and nothing after this. I feel unsure about when to expect my daughter to meet her milestones, start solid food etc
| 6 (5–6) | 5.55 (1.06) | 21 |
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How can healthcare, support services, and early intervention be improved for young children? |
Lack of appointments or availability with specialists or allied health services for example, OT, speech etc in regional areas. | 6 (5–6) | 5.54 (1.10) | 22 |
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How can young children’s health needs impact on parents’ feelings of isolation and access to support? |
Isolation is hard with any baby but with a prem sick baby it is harder as you have to move away from family & support for treatment. | 6 (5–6) | 5.53 (1.07) | 23 |
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What is the impact on family relationships and how can this be improved? |
My husband and I both suffered significant trauma over what happened to our son and on top of the pressures of having a new baby being hard enough, the added complications of our unique experience caused our marriage to suffer. | 6 (5–6) | 5.51 (1.09) | 25 |
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How can families and health professionals work as equal partners in caring for young children? |
When your baby continues to have feeding issues after leaving hospital and you can’t access help you need as GP, physio, community health nurse, OT just tell you to discuss it with the paediatrician [and] once you get an appointment, a parent’s concerns are dismissed. | 6 (5–6) | 5.43 (1.03) | 26 |
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Childhood and Adolescent Period
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How can neonatal conditions affect the development of school-aged children’s skills and abilities and how can this be improved? |
I didn’t know the issues from birth were going to lead to delayed development, which was only picked up late just before school. | 6 (5–7) | 5.85 (1.06) | 13 |
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What are the long-term health and medical impacts on the child and how can these be improved? |
Health issues arising as a result of being preterm that were not originally evident. | 6 (5–7) | 5.76 (1.08) | 16 |