| Setting: Typically located in a hospice setting such as the dying person's home or an inpatient hospice facility. | Setting: Modified to be completed in the hospital setting such as at the patient's bedside or in a meeting room. |
| Introduction: Typically presented as some form of, “As you near the end of your life, there might be things you feel are left unsaid or memories that would like to pass on. Dignity Therapy is an opportunity to share your story and wisdom with your loved ones in the form of a printed document. Is that something that sounds interesting to you?” | Introduction: Modified as some form of, “You have a lot of great stories about your life. There is this thing called Dignity Therapy that you might like. You will get to tell your stories and share some hopes for your family that we can turn into a book. Does that sound like something you would like to do?” |
| Framing meeting: Typically, the adult shares who they want to receive the final document. The provider explains the process of Dignity Therapy further and gives some examples of questions that might be asked in the interview. | Framing meeting: Modified to be completed during the introduction if necessary, for timing. The child or proxy decides who they would like to receive the final document; this can include other children with similar diagnoses and prognoses. |
| Interview questions: Typically, the provider will ask standardized questions from the Dignity Therapy training, while still maintaining a feeling of casual conversation. | Interview questions: Modified to reflect the particular child's life experiences, or the proxy's perception. |
| For example | For example |
| 1. “What are your hopes and dreams for your loved ones?” | 1. “What is something you hope for your mom?” or “Is there something you dream your sister will do when she is older?” |
| 2. “What are some of the important roles you played in your life?” | 2. “What was it like being a brother?” or “What did you love about being a cousin?” |
| 3. “Do you have any instructions you would want to pass along to others?” | 3. “If you could make something special happen for your dad, what would that be?” |
| | For a proxy… “If your child could speak to you right now, what do you think they would say?” |
| By proxy: Typically, the proxy assists the dying adult with details of their story or reminds them of important moments. | By proxy: Modified to be provided entirely to the proxy of a preverbal child or child with nonverbal intellectual disability. In this case, the proxy could be a caregiver or older sibling. The proxy would share specific memories as they relate to the dying child and insights they gained from knowing that child. The intention is to share the dying child's story and experiences gained through caring for them. |
| Final document: Typically presented to the dying adult as a word only document. | Final document: Modified to include special art, pictures, or creative formatting that reflects the child's personality. If the child dies before the completion of the final document, it is then mailed or delivered to the chosen recipient. |