| Literature DB >> 30931354 |
Margaret I Fitch1, Ruth Bartlett2.
Abstract
OBJECTIVE: This study was undertaken to explore the perspectives regarding spirituality and spiritual care held by individuals with advanced disease. The aim was to gain a deeper understanding about their viewpoints surrounding spiritual care and the role of health-care professionals in providing such care.Entities:
Keywords: Advanced disease; patient perspectives; spiritual care; spirituality
Year: 2019 PMID: 30931354 PMCID: PMC6371668 DOI: 10.4103/apjon.apjon_62_18
Source DB: PubMed Journal: Asia Pac J Oncol Nurs ISSN: 2347-5625
Illustrative quotes from participants
| Themes | Subt-hemes | Examples of illustrative quotes from participant interviews |
|---|---|---|
| Spirituality is personal | Individuals express their spirituality in unique and varied ways | Christian |
| When I think of spirituality I think of Jesus (of God). That's who I think of – absolutely comes to my mind. RR | ||
| My relationship with my Savior (my Lord). Through a lot of prayer and reading of the Word is my main – and really drawing on him for everything…in here (hospital) especially. I have really, really noticed it (that, I just have to lean). | ||
| I have to take everything in my life and just hand it over to him and trust him that he is the one that is dealing with this. It's not me. It's him. I just put it all before him. I’m just relaxed in his love. I know he is there…GS | ||
| It's about God. The closer you get to know him, the better you get to – when you know about God you get to be closer to him, more because you feel that the moment you tell him your problems and he answers…you feel that he is real to you…It's about personal relation to the one who created me. HS | ||
| It's – anything spiritually I connect to the Lord, Jesus Christ. You know, we worship him as Christians…When it (diagnosis) happened to me, I didn’t not think about taking the phone and calling my pastor. It was like, between me and God…It somehow helped me to understand the closeness of God, that I can approach him in this matter, and not go to a priest, or a friend. LA | ||
| Immediately you think about religion when you think about, you know, your commitment to, you know, religion in general. That's what comes to mind. You know…it goes all the way back to childhood. You know, it's something that is just so deep that…it has not only begun for me at this time of my illness. It came from a very, very long time ago…So you know, every time there is something that goes wrong, you reach out to God…That's my real viewing of it, really. KS | ||
| I think it doesn’t matter which religion you belong to or you believe to, but faith is (I would say it's) universal. I think to me, that's what spirituality means. Faith for me means a lot of strength. I get a lot of strength from prayer. LMA | ||
| Well, without spirituality in my life, I could not live. I rely on the Lord for everything: the way I move, the way I make decisions. I always pray. MS | ||
| People mention spirituality, I feel that it's their own personal belief in some power beyond this world. Everybody is – not everybody, but most people - have some type of spirituality in them. It's a belief in a greater power or something beyond their human being. PD | ||
| How they feel about themselves, about afterlife (about God), about their own individuality and who they think they have been in their life, their fears that are, “Have I done enough? Haven’t I done enough? Am I going to do enough? Am I going to have the time to do enough? And what I’ve done already, is it acceptable?” you know?. SG | ||
| It's a long and broad subject. Spirituality to some can be religion. Spirituality, you know, can mean the science of being human. What does that involve? What's your driving force within? You know, how do you get in touch with that? For me, spirituality is the science of learning what it is to be human and what our abilities and capabilities that we rely on (how much credit do we give them to help us through) our day to day living. For me, it's really understanding the scope and breath of the life I live every day. LM | ||
| New age/mysticism | ||
| Well, there is so many interpretations for that. I mean, I really don’t take into account anyone else's interpretation. I think it's a personal thing…I just accept what they say it is for them…Spirituality has no form or structure or bureaucracy (in my mind anyways)… if there is anything that is against spirituality would be separation. Though in my own life, I look at it as no separation between anything, actually. Everything is connected IS | ||
| I guess you would consider it a little more new-age. So, I’ve been to mediums and heard from the other side as it were and believe that there are, you know, guardian people around us who watch over us. CG | ||
| Buddhist | ||
| For me it's like, you know, doing good to others…So, Buddhism is my faith. Yeah, and like, not harming other people and following with – that is spirituality for me…following Buddhism and a bit of Hinduism because we are influenced from where I come. We are Buddhists but it used to be like, a Hindu kingdom, so a lot of things influenced by Hindu rituals also… Our rituals are Buddhist but we also pray to like, Hindi Gods and stuff like that. AG | ||
| Nonbeliever | ||
| Listen. I have had so much to my life that I don’t believe in spirit-stuff…I never went to – to – to church when I grew up because the people where I grew up, they wanted religions into us and that's when I say, “Oh, leave me alone. I don’t want to have anything of this.” HR | ||
| Spirituality brings hope, comfort, strength and feelings of being supported | …Because he made us, so he knows what's best for us. It's not in our hands. It's in his hands, whatever purpose he wanted for us…but at least in my religion, right now, we have hope. If I die right now, I have the hope to live again…I feel that the God that I am worshiping right now is real to me, not an image…I can confess my sin to him, and I know that he will forgive me. I can tell everything, just like a friend that I could trust. HS | |
| Me, I cannot imagine anybody without faith. Without faith, where do you get the strength to battle every day, because every day when you have this kind of disease is a battle, right? So, where do you get your strength, your inner strength if not from faith? Maybe not everybody needs faith. I don’t know. I know, I do. LMA | ||
| I’m never depressed…Because the Lord gives me help not to be depressed and to hope and trust in him and things will go all normal. I am strong enough to go on. MS | ||
| Oh, definitely. I couldn’t do it without my faith. I would commit suicide, that's all (without my faith). Life wouldn’t be worth living. Well, because I would have no hopes in anything (in the Lord) so what's the use of going on? MS | ||
| Well, it gives me confidence. When I was diagnosed with this grave illness that may take my life, I didn’t get weepy or all upset. I was quite confident that if I did go, there is something more to go to. So, it gives me faith, and hope. PD | ||
| I think of comfort. He takes away my pain. I think of being protected. That's what I think about when I think about my Lord…He gives me strength…I have no fears. RR | ||
| Spirituality now to me is saying a prayer with my family, knowing how much they care for me and that their prayers are with me and knowing that no matter what I do now, I can’t do any bad because the bad I’ve done, I’ve already done. So I’m here. Yeah. I don’t live in the past anymore. It's not worth it. SG | ||
| Illness can impact spiritual beliefs | Beliefs strengthen | |
| They’ve just made them stronger. Yeah. And even more positive (ironically)…I was, you know, sloping through life, taking everything for granted, and suddenly, I’m not anymore. I don’t miss things. I pay attention. I have moments of, I guess, you’d call it ‘quiet euphoria’ where, oh, you just smell lilacs and think, “Isn’t that magnificent?” That kind of thing happens. It just made it more solid (more positive). CG | ||
| Drew me closer to the Lord. GS | ||
| It's affirmed it for sure. Yeah, for me personally. Yeah, it's affirmed it. IS | ||
| If you are faced with a disease like mine you know, you tend to go back to your faith more than when you are well. Like, I think it's human. LMA | ||
| If anything it has made it stronger because I do believe as soon as I got ill that was the first thing that crossed my mind. This might be my time to go and that I am quite prepared…It gives me comfort because, instead of dwelling on the fact that something might go wrong, I just see it as part of life. We all know we live to die. – PD | ||
| My faith increases every day because of the prayer I do…I feel closer to the Lord because of my illness. That's all I can tell you. He is with me. Jesus is with me. MS | ||
| Focus shifted | ||
| …But I’m looking in a different direction, you know, not just saying, “In the next month I’ll be doing this €Ÿor – I’m not looking that far ahead. I’ve stopped looking that far ahead. LA | ||
| If your life is limited, you’ve got to pay attention to every second you are on the planet. You have to look around and see and smell and taste and touch all the things that are here for you that you take for granted so often. (CG) | ||
| Well, l like I went outside. I’m sitting in the sun. I’m looking at the sky. I’m listening finely to the birds. I haven’t heard them for weeks and weeks. I go, where are the birds? To me, that's a peace. I can just sit there and, totally involved in it and connecting – I don’t know if next week, next month, next year. I’m not going to be able to do that. SG | ||
| Doubts raised | ||
| Does it mean that I am disappointed with the Lord and my religions and everything else because I am not doing well? MS | ||
| …Having the knowledge of the Bible and what spiritually (what spiritual information) you get from the Bible; then you come to realize that something happens in your life cannot tie in with whatever you were taught or what you read. Sometimes it can come in a form of doubt or “Gosh, if this can’t work out what is going to happen to me?” LA | ||
| You know, right now, I think that going through the phases of treatment, when you actually find yourself asking (yourself) this question, “Why me at the stage of my life? €ÿ You know, who needs to go through this at this stage of this life? Who needs to go through it at all? I find myself asking this question a lot. You know, I wish it wasn’t me. I wish that – I wish God sort of explained to me or something where, “Well, I chose you to go through this because you were the strongest in your family and can withstand all of this at this time €ÿ, you know? I don’t know. I wish I had the answers. Trust me, I wish I had the answers. I would like to get some answers but unfortunately, I don’t. KS | ||
| Spiritual distress is about separation | Separation from god/higher being | To me, I guess, spiritual distress would be getting far away from God (letting myself drift) and not being where I know I’m supposed to be. I’m supposed to be close to him so that I know his will. I think that when this time of distress type of stuff comes is, I know I’m in the wrong type of thing and that I’m not doing what I’m supposed to be doing. So I get, what I could call, distress and have to find my way back. GS |
| Spiritual distress is something that you don’t believe in God, right? I feel that they are distressed because they feel that God – they blame God about it so they don’t care about God. They don’t know what's happening to them. HS | ||
| You know, when something like this happens and you know, you wake up one morning and this is your life. You say, “Oh my God. What have I done? Look at what has happened. I neglected praying. I neglected asking you for guidance. €ÿYou know, all of these things. And it has happened to me. So I realize now (and with all of this just happening now) I cannot concentrate the way I would like to, to ask God in any meaningful way to please help me to make that connection once again. You know, it has been hard for me. I wish I could make that connection once again. KS | ||
| Yeah, something that can make you feel spiritually separated from God. SH | ||
| Spiritual distress for me is stop believing in God. LMA | ||
| I think of people that are in the darkness, that you don’t feel that Jesus is around you…I think you feel that he's not listening to you…you are in a situation where you feel emptiness. You feel afraid…it is spiritual emptiness. RR | ||
| Separation from beliefs | You know, spiritual distress, I believe to me is a disconnect with your faith (with your religion). You know, with not having that connection… KS | |
| …Sometimes you doubt interpretation of scriptures. It can happen, you know? You can doubt interpretation – It would cause some distress in some people. LA | ||
| Well, I feel that it would be someone who was experiencing – they don’t believe in another power or experiencing hopelessness. Yeah, lack of belief is causing them to feel hopeless. PD | ||
| …The distress I see as an absence of anything positive. CG | ||
| Separation from fellow believers and practices | I think spiritual distress would be separation…if you are separated, then you’ve gone through spiritual distress because you – as I said right at the beginning everything is connected - if you see yourself as separate from everything, you will definitely have had spiritual distress…all sorts of fear…you really just can’t communicate because you see yourself as separated…IS | |
| Spiritual distress is when your heart is really upset (when you can’t think, you can’t sleep, and you can’t do anything). LM | ||
| Spiritual distress, I feel the people that are lost. They have no goal. They have no path they are walking on. They are on a twisty, windy road with too many forks in it. They decide where I do from here? That's spiritual distress. Like asking yourself, where do I go from here? Yeah. That's to me what spiritual distress is. Not knowing where you are going. Like, am I doing the right thing? Am I going here? Not being able to make up your own mind because you haven’t found the answer within yourself yet, you know? They have to find the answer within themselves. SG | ||
| Well, I guess, yeah, the feeling that existed for a while that no one could help me out of this (my friends, my family, God, the spirit world). I was going down a slide and I was on my way out and so-it was just all gloom and doom…not long, but yes, just in the initial stages when everything was spinning around CG | ||
| Distress is – distress is, “I don’t know what to do. I’m helpless €ÿ. But for me, spiritual distress really exists. Yes, it feels like a pressure on your heart or whatever on your mind. You don’t know what to do but not say it, and you feel helpless. But there can be pressure on your brain. There can be pressure on your heart. LA | ||
| Spiritual care is about connecting | Care by a higher being | Spiritual care, uppermost, is to help people to find peace in their lives and in their hearts. Give them strength. Not only something to look forward to, but a belief in God that this is about you and God now, you know? LA |
| Spiritual care is about knowing what really God wants you to do. HS | ||
| Spiritual care – as I said. We are never abandoned. We are never alone. The Lord always sticks with us…He created us so He cannot leave us alone with the problems. MS | ||
| My everyday spiritual care is spending time in the Word and coming before the Lord, and all of that. GS | ||
| I just really believe that the word of God is the thing to share and just – it will just pour over you. Just – yes – and covers you and fills you. Yeah. That, I believe is the most important thing. GS | ||
| Care by a priest/clergy, hospital chaplain | Well, I really appreciated (hospital chaplain) coming in like that. It was a little boost for me just to have somebody to talk to like that…I just felt very comfortable with (name). We established our grounds as who we were and everything like that and what I believed in. GS | |
| I know that we all have to die and being a Catholic, you believe that there is life afterward…So as long as the spiritual person talks in a positive way, I’m all for it. Yeah. But if they are going to start talking, you know, saying, “You have to resign yourself”. No. I’m sorry. LMA | ||
| Spiritual care is – our own priest gives us spiritual care. Yesterday a priest came to visit me. That was beautiful. He prayed over me. He prayed for me. We had a prayer. We had good conversation and he left and I felt uplifted. MS | ||
| Yes, right after my surgery two years ago or so they sent a lady to talk to me. It was nice, you know? But, it was different. She was talking to me about the Lord and stuff about our faith. She was a preacher of the same faith. It was good. MS | ||
| I mean the priest has been in and giving me communion every Sunday. He drops by and sees me. It's a nice feeling to know that somebody there is wishing you well, you know? PD | ||
| I think of someone, like a priest, coming talking to me…That's what I think of spiritual care – someone who has - someone who is more knowledgeable than I or as knowledgeable - or prayer. That's what I think of when I think of spiritual care. RR | ||
| Care through Interactions with fellow believers | But yeah – it's having people too, to encourage you and keep you going. GS | |
| Spiritual care – I mean, you think about the Jehovah's Witness coming to your door, you know? Things like that. That's what I think about. It's because they are bringing that theological approach to – for you to make that connection once again. KS | ||
| I admit to people that I have my moments and I need support or if they ask me, I say, “Pray for me”. Some of the Christians would come in and take the wrists, tell the scripture and when they come to visit they don’t come empty handed. They come with something to help me along the way. This is what scripture says. LA | ||
| I guess, first of all, the care of the spirits around me. But also, I have several friends who also believe as I do. Their being around me and reminding me of things…they are wonderful. CG | ||
| I do have a good group of friends that we share a faith. We have a prayer group going. LMA | ||
| I think the care of your family…Taking care of the family and the family taking care of me and carrying so much, you know? SG | ||
| Conversations about spirituality must align with the patient's beliefs | Role of health care professionals | No, I haven’t really needed it because I’ve been doing my own spiritual thing so many years but, you know, I rely on myself for that. LM |
| …Because it's not something people want to talk about anyway (I don’t think) because it is very personal. I mean, if my doctor asked me, “Are you feeling/experiencing spiritual distress?” I don’t know if whether I would even want to hear that question. I don’t know, IS | ||
| We can make sure (that we are at least going to have/offer) the ability for a person who feels cut off from God. We are going to be a bridge that maybe is more designed towards making that bridge stronger” because that's what it is…a bridge to helping the person not feel so cut off SH | ||
| Well, I mean, they ask it every day, “How are you feeling?” but do they take the time to stop and listen to what they said. They have to be able to almost read between the lines. LM | ||
| Yeah, you know, like, “How can I help today?” Those are very simple words, but you know what? It means a lot to somebody who is not feeling well. You know, well they come up and say, “Well, you can’t help me with anything”. “Well, okay. But I’m here if I can” LM | ||
| But I like it very much no matter what religion they are, believe me - when they do talk about the Lord, about the faith, these people that come to help us, you know, I really like it. MS | ||
| She (doctor) takes her time…and she listens. She truly listens. She does listen. You can talk all you want…and she truly listens…she has such a gentle manner. RR | ||
| What patients say will help to start conversations about spirituality | …Because they are health professionals…would they ask people about spiritual distress? Okay. You could approach it in this way, but “I am a physician, is there anybody you think of who can help you in this particular time of your life? Do you have anybody you can ask questions, or you know?” You can ask them if they are feeling discouraged and – you could say, well, “How are you feeling now?”…general things. LA | |
| Oh, spiritual care is just – I guess - the simple term I would use is just respect. It's just – yeah, just simple respect would be the first step…yeah, just – I see respect even though you are in some environment totally different. You’ve got to respect it, you know, embrace it…any form of separation is not respect. IS | ||
| You know, (ask) “What's happening in your life today that is different than yesterday? You were feeling fine yesterday but today is different. What made that difference?” Sometimes you break it down into pieces because that's how the brain operates. You can’t just ask just a broad question. LM | ||
| If it's done in a positive way, I think it's really good. Then it all depends on the person, you know? It all depends on the person, on the beliefs of the person. LMA. | ||
| You know, the best way to approach that, I think it would be – what are their plans for the future? Regardless if they are terminally ill or whatever. I think having something to look forward to, you know? Ask them if they have any plans (anything they want to do or that they are planning to do)?… I don’t think I would use any negative words or anything. LMA | ||
| I guess the best way is honesty. So you would just honestly say, “We want to offer you things and these are one of things we offer. Are you interested?” PD | ||
| What patients say will help in having conversations about spirituality | …People come to you and believe that they are helping you and they just bombard you with ideas and bombard you with information. You have to reach a stage when you say to people sometimes, “Can you just listen to me for a little while?” Or “I’m too tired. I can’t even understand what you are trying to say to me now or I might react in a way that's not helping me”. Know when to stop. LA | |
| When you are in this distress. I mean, you know it. You feel it. It's very prevalent. It's – okay, how does one deal with that? You know, that's when they need somebody, you know, to go to and just listen to them talk. Even if they say nothing, they’ve had a chance to binge their ear. LM | ||
| If you respect the reaction of the person, you can – you can reinforce where they are coming from (which is all that really matters). You can’t go around telling everyone how they should be. If you respect where they are coming from then they feel it, you know. IS | ||
| …sometimes, if you just let the conversation go, it will take you where you need to go. It is quite an interesting process once you start getting into the spirituality of a person. You know, that person will lead you where you need to go even though they don’t know what they are doing…LM |
Advice from patients regarding conversations about spiritual needs
| Focus of suggestions | Specific suggestions of questions participants thought would be helpful to engage in conversations about spiritual needs |
|---|---|
| Questions to open a conversation | What would you like to know (about your illness)? Here's what I can tell you, what I know |
| Do you have any worries? What exactly is worrying you? | |
| Do you feel scared or feel you do not know what to do? | |
| Are you having difficulties in a certain area? | |
| Are you finding you are feeling lonely? Alone? | |
| Do you feel separated or disconnected? | |
| Do you find that life for you is worth living? | |
| Do you have friends? Hobbies? | |
| How are your negative thoughts impacting your life? | |
| How are your positive thoughts impacting your life? | |
| What make you happy? What do you think makes the positive happen? | |
| What do you find beautiful in nature? | |
| How are you feeling (today)? | |
| What is different about today? What makes the difference? | |
| How can I help you today? | |
| How is your day going? | |
| What is happening in your world today? | |
| Do you have plans for the future? What are you looking forward to? What would you like to do? What are you planning? | |
| What kinds of things do you believe in? How are feeling about those beliefs now? | |
| Do you need spiritual help? We have things to offer, are you interested? | |
| We are here for you | |
| Selected: For a patient who has indicated beliefs, staff member could base the conversation on his/her own knowledge of the scriptures: find out how strong the patient's faith is; Did you come to know God? Do you believe in the Lord? | |
| General advice on having the conversation | Be open, honest and gentle? Respect the other and his or her views |
| Do not be afraid of using personal experiences, but do not impose | |
| If you ask a question, stop and listen to the answer | |
| Do not push your own beliefs | |
| Align your conversation with patient's beliefs |