| Literature DB >> 35990755 |
Jan Prasko1,2,3,4, Marie Ociskova1, Jakub Vanek1, Julius Burkauskas5, Milos Slepecky2, Ieva Bite6, Ilona Krone7, Tomas Sollar2, Alicja Juskiene5.
Abstract
Dysfunctional patterns, beliefs, and assumptions that affect a patient's perception of other people often affect their perceptions and behaviours towards the therapist. This tendency has been traditionally called transference for its psychoanalytical roots and presents an important factor to monitor and process. In supervision, it is important to put the patient's transference in the context of the conceptualization of the case. Countertransference occurs when the therapist responds complementary to the patient's transference based on their own dysfunctional beliefs or assumptions. Transference and countertransference provide useful insights into the inner world of the patient, therapist, and supervisor. Guided discovery is one of the most common approaches used by a supervisor and a supervisee to map all types and directions of transference and countertransference. Other options to map transference and countertransference are imagery and role-playing techniques.Entities:
Keywords: cognitive behavioral therapy; countertransference; supervision; supervisory relationship; therapeutic relationship; transference
Year: 2022 PMID: 35990755 PMCID: PMC9384966 DOI: 10.2147/PRBM.S369294
Source DB: PubMed Journal: Psychol Res Behav Manag ISSN: 1179-1578
Types of Patients Transference and Possible Responses of the Therapist
| Type of Transference | Examples of Typical Thoughts | Emotional Reactions | Examples of Typical Behaviour | Possible Therapeutic Reactions |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Admiring-dependent | The therapist is fantastic. She’s the only person who really understands me, and I will never get out of this without her help. | Enthusiasm and admiration repeatedly change. There is a fear of abandonment. | Frequent complaints and expressions of independence. Giving gifts, praise therapist, flattery, They need a lot of praise, rewards and support. They often require advice, explanation, and care. | Asking about needs and plans, but not advising but encouraging free choice. Empower the patient to create their own homework. Empathic confrontation of dependent behaviour, mapping its origin, discussing the advantages and disadvantages of dependent attitudes, and discussing the free goals of behaviour in the imagination. |
| Admiring - Independent | The therapist is an excellent professional, just like me. He will certainly enjoy working with an intelligent patient. I am glad I found such a specialist, even though I know most things he tells me. In the end, it’s all up to me. | Euphory, pride, arousal | He/she likes to compete and compare himself in sessions with a therapist. He/she enjoys expressing opposite attitudes and discusses philosophy, fashion, culture, and politics with the therapist. Invites therapist to a “good lunch”. Frequently changes the theme of the session, competes, emphasizes his/her originality and independence | Empathic confrontation of competitive and demonstrative tendencies, empathy with the vulnerable feelings beneath them. Normalization of hypercompensation, mapping of their roots, and then a discussion of the positive and negative consequences of the behaviour. Mapping similarities with behavior outside therapy. Want homework assignments; discuss obstacles. |
| Moderate positive | The therapist is nice to me, and she wishes the best for me and understands me. | Hope | Adherence to the therapy, be open, active, make home experiments and exercises | Empower the patient, continue therapy without changes in the approach |
| Aggressive | I have to show that I am strong; otherwise, he will do what he wants with me. I will not let me chop wood! Either I win or he. How dare he! I have to defend myself! | Fear, anger | He speaks with an angry voice, angrily faces, blames, reproaches, threatens | Validate anger. Let her ventilate within limits. Ask what triggered her. Provide empathic feedback on the anxiety or helplessness that is behind it. Let the patient know that the therapist understands his feelings. Let him express his anger with the help of negative questioning and assertive consent. Then discuss the unmet needs and attitudes behind it, including mapping the causes of these attitudes. |
| Erotic | It would be great if she wanted me. She must be a great partner. I feel like making love to her, and she is so charming and yet intelligent. She will save me. | Intense desire to be with a therapist, difficulty concentrating on working in a session for feelings of infatuation and desire. | He is flirting with a therapist, wearing expressive clothes, emphasizing interesting things about himself, long sighs, loving sights to the therapist, interest in her partnership, and preferences. | If the intensity is mild, there is no need to address it if it does not affect the course of therapy. In this case, it usually subsides. However, if this transmission blocks therapy, it is necessary to address this topic in a session, go through the associated cognitions, realize their influence on behaviour, and then discuss resources in unmet needs in the past. The therapist needs to express sensitively but firmly that he is willing to cooperate therapeutically but is not interested in a close personal relationship. |
| Shy | The therapist can criticize me, hurt me, and make fun of me. He rejects me and leaves me when he finds out who I am. | Shame, fear, helplessness | He/she cannot look the therapist in the eye. He/she has trouble entrusting a therapist with painful events. He/she carefully does his/her homework for fear of criticism. He/she often talks about not deserving attention; he/she is incompetent. He often apologizes, he explains. | Easily terminates therapy prematurely. It needs a therapist’s accepting and unobtrusive attitude and empathy for fear and mistrust. Encouragement and step-by-step action are needed. A relationship is important to normalize and empathetically confront. Praise gently and truthfully every attempt at openness and courage. |
| Suspicious | The therapist is doing this to me on purpose. He wants to hurt and abuse me. He’s against me, and I have to watch it. He has hidden motives; he does not play fair. | Fear, anxiety, anger | It retracts and closes. He does not talk about himself at all or only very superficially. It can be indirectly aggressive, not doing homework. He often falls out of therapy. | Provide empathic feedback, discuss the situation openly, help examine where sensitivity comes from, and go through relationships where it also occurs — map out reasonable attitudes, their pros and cons, and their impact on behaviour — experiment with confidence. |
| Competitive | I know that; I have heard it many times. I have tried what he’s telling me, and it was useless. He’s no better than me. I know many things better than she does, and he underestimates and teaches me. However, I know a lot better than she does. | Frustration, tension, anger, pride, envy | She competes with a therapist. He discusses fiercely the need to “be right.” He does other things than are agreed. It is difficult to reach compromises. | Provide empathic feedback on manifestations of competitiveness and confrontation. Express understanding and normalize. Map their origin and occurrence in the past and present. Discuss the advantages and disadvantages in specific situations and the impact on cooperation with therapy. |
| Contemptuous | He cannot do it. He is weak and stupid. How could he help me who does not? | Pride, contempt, impatience, anger | The patient despises psychotherapy and a therapist who throws away what the therapist is doing. He refuses to do his homework, leave a session or stop attending therapy. | Provide empathic feedback on specific behaviours. Explore thoughts and attitudes. You find their origins, Find out how they work in different situations, the behavior they lead to, the pros and cons for life and relationships and what they mean for therapy. |
| Jealous | Why he/she prefers another patient it’s unfair. He/she gave her/him ten minutes more than me! Why am I worse for him/her? He/she prefers. | Tension, anger, helplessness | Withdrawal or regret. Occasionally there are outbursts of rage. I am measuring session time (others and himself/herself) and monitoring the expression of the therapist’s favour towards others and comparing oneself. | I am asking about thoughts related to helplessness and anxiety. Express understanding and use guided discovery to map the consequences. Elicite angry thoughts, emotions and behaviors. Help identify the origins, maintenance factors, and affection to behaviours, emotions, and relationships in various life situations. |
| Possessive | They are paid to help me. They must always be available to me because they must help me. I do not care that they have a family, and they should have chosen another profession. | Feelings of pride and smell alternate with anger and anxiety depending on the therapist’s behaviour. | The patient is urgent, controlling, and often domineering. He calls very often, and they are skipping a session. However, he gets angry when the therapist is unavailable to him, and he often blames reproaches. | Explore emotions, thoughts and attitudes. Find out the primary emotions and cognitions before anger—express understanding for them while giving empathetic but firm feedback on behaviour. Find the origins of attitudes and injuries in the past (the need to control protects against the fear of abandonment). Map similar behaviour outside of therapy and identify its advantages and disadvantages. |
Typical Questions That Help the Therapist to Map the Patient’s Transference
| ● What’s on your mind? What do you mean in this situation? What do you think of me in this situation? Do similar thoughts occur to a loved one? In whom and in which situations? Do you know these thoughts from any past situations? |
| ● What emotions do you experience now in conversation with me? Is there anyone in your life with whom you have experienced similar emotions? Is there any person you currently experience similar emotions with? What would you need most in this situation? Have there been similar needs in the past? What did you do to fill them? |
| ● When we talked about how you experienced your relationship with your loved ones as a child, did something similar happen to you when you met me? |
| ● Is there something similar that you expect from me and what you expect from your loved ones, colleagues or superiors? |
| ● Sometimes during our meetings, you do this … Is it something that is repeated in other situations or with other people? |
| ● I wonder if there is something you would like to tell me when … (describe the behaviour)? |
Case Vignette - Using Imagination in Supervision to Mentalize the Patient’s Feelings
| Supervisor: You described that the patient repeatedly does not do homework for the session. She apologizes for not having time, and you respond by repeatedly explaining that she cannot expect a change in her experience without homework. How does she react to that? |
| Therapist: She says she wants to do homework, but she does not have time. She is anxious, and she looks guilty. When she comes to the session, over and over again, she promises to start doing homework. And she did it only rarely. |
| Supervisor: You say she is anxious, looks guilty, and then eagerly promises to start doing homework. Do you think we can try to see what is she going through? |
| Therapist: I guess so. I have also experienced many times that I have not completed a task. |
| Supervisor: So, we can try … to be in her shoes in the imagery and imagine what’s going on … What do you say? |
| Therapist: I will try. What should I do? |
| Supervisor: Close your eyes. Imagine that you come to therapy and do not have homework and experience anxiety and guilt. Then you promise to start doing homework. If possible, imagine it in the present tense and tell me what’s happening inside you and what you are doing … |
| Therapist: (closes the eyes). I come to the session, and I am ashamed that I do not have homework. The therapist will be angry. I feel guilty, and I blame myself for not doing it. But I cannot do it … I have a lot to do, two small children, my husband and I are arguing, I have no energy to think about any tasks … he will be angry at me … I am not surprised at all … next time I have to manage it …. |
| Supervisor: Now the therapist tells you that without homework, you cannot expect something to change … what’s going on with you … |
| Therapist: I feel miserable … helpless … bad … incompetent … I promise I will try … I want to try … not to get kicked out of therapy … |
| Supervisor: Does it remind you of a previous situation, from childhood, adolescence or adulthood? … |
| Therapist: Yeah, like when my mom shouted at me … I also felt bad, helpless, guilty … I also promised to be nice … |
| Supervisor: Let us try to go back … What was it like for you to get in her shoes? |
| Therapist: Well, now I see it all. Her mother criticized her terribly, and she was afraid of her and tried to be nice, but she could not do what her mother wanted her to do. Maybe she is experiencing the same thing as me. I should probably discuss this with her … and give her less difficult tasks that consider her situation at home … or prepare her a lot in a session and encourage her to do so … |
Case Vignette - Example of Using Role-Playing During Supervision
| Supervisor: So, I understood your patient “shuts down” and answers that she is not able to explain when you ask her about her thoughts and emotions, especially in the situations when you recognize that she criticizes herself. |
Case Vignette - Patient Admires the Therapist Who Developed Countertransference
| A patient who developed panic disorder admires the therapist. She tells him that he is the best therapist she has ever met. He understands her best. She slanders two therapists she used to visit and describes their unprofessional behaviour. In the therapy, he provides her advice. The therapist notices that the patient is an attractive woman. The therapist feels very good about the relationship with the patient, who adores him because she praises him. Panic attacks respond to standard CBT approaches, and the patient manages them with controlled breath and cognitive restructuring. Then she reports on a problematic situation in the marriage, where she feels that her husband does not understand her. When the therapist discusses the situation with her, after a short while, the therapist informs her that her husband does not deserve her, does not appreciate her dedication and is surprised that she still stays with him—the therapist in supervision reports on the patient as an exceptional woman who quickly overcame a panic disorder. The panic attacks occurred because the husband did not support her, and they promptly disappeared with the therapist’s support. Thus therapist ask in supervision whether their patient should divorce. The supervisor asks the therapist about the feelings the woman evokes in him, what he likes about her and what he does not like, and what happens to him when he expects this patient to come to the session. These questions surprise the therapist. He hoped the supervisor to support his view that the patient should divorce and not ask how they experienced it. However, during further guided discovery, he realizes that he formed views on marriage problems and therefore on the patient’s husband, without a thorough analysis of the problem, that the patient likes him and is erotically attracted to him, and that he tends to observe her figure, look at her in a special way even though he thinks that she is a patient and he can not cross boundaries. |
Case Vignette - Countertransference Induced by Therapist´s Own Negative Experience
| The supervising therapist says she wants to help determine appropriate strategies for a patient who has post-traumatic stress disorder after rape three years ago. The patient does not want to remember the traumatic situation in therapy because it is unpleasant. She wants to draw a thick line behind the past. She also thinks that she has so many flashbacks from which she tries to distract attention, as it seems unnecessary to remember that. The therapist agrees. According to her, the patient is not yet sufficiently prepared to work with trauma. They go to therapy “only a year” and build safety together because the patient is very fragile. The patient has already been hospitalized twice at a psychiatric clinic this year because she attempted suicide. This is proof to the therapist that work on trauma should not begin yet. However, she needs help because she suffers from daily flashbacks and nightmares several times a week when she returns to a situation where several men raped her. During the discussion in supervision, it turns out that the therapist has never treated a trauma of rape with any patient in the past. If a patient mentioned rape, the therapist tended to divert attention from this topic and emphasize the patient’s other problems. The case of rape was very unpleasant for the therapist because the therapist herself experienced a situation when a drunk man harassed her. |
Examples of Typical Countertransference Problems
| ● Problems with maintaining time or space limits of sessions, repeated exceeding of time, skipping sessions, meeting outside therapy, etc. |
Examples of the Countertransference and Possible Strategies for a Change
| Type of Countertransference | Examples of Typical Thoughts | Emotional Reactions | Examples of Typical Behaviour | Possible Therapeutic Reactions |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Moderate positive | I like him/her. He/she is a nice person. She works well with him/her. He/she handles the homework well. | Interest, relaxation | Cooperation, interest, appreciation, support, empathy | Continue to maintain a therapeutic relationship and therapy in a similar manner |
| Overprotective | He/she cannot make his/her own decisions. I have to help and advise him/her. It will be my fault if something happens to him/her. | Anxiety, fear, and lack of security. | Protection, reassurance and building patient control. Providing advice, providing helpers. It does not allow the patient to make independent decisions and doubts his/her abilities. | Clarify one’s own attitudes, context, background, influence on patient behaviour, advantages and disadvantages. Supervision can help and stop treatment directives and over-provision. Let the patient plan things independently. Otherwise, the patient should change therapists. |
| Admiring | That person is very intelligent, exceptional, talented, interesting, beautiful, original, etc.) | Looking up, pride, fascination, admiration, | The therapist does not make sufficient evaluations and does not perform systematic psychotherapy, and any non-compliance is downplayed. The therapist does not require homework from the patient, and he/she talks about the excellent qualities of the patient. | Clarify your behavior and attitudes, their impact on behavior and advantages and disadvantages. Supervision and personal therapy are recommended. Start behaving like other patients. If behaviour fails to change, opening a problem with the patient or changing therapists may help. |
| Apprehensive (anxious) | He can hurt me, make fun of me, humiliate me, or show me that I am worthless, stupid, etc. | Shame, anxiety, fear. | Silent speech, passivity, fear of saying something, leaving the management of the session to the patient, and uncertain behaviour. | Work on the therapist’s own self-confidence—suitable personal psychotherapy. Supervision required. If this does not work, the patient should change therapists. |
| Aggressive (invasive) | He/she is a psychopath, hysterical, and ignorant. He/she just wants benefits, and he/she has secondary profits. He/she does not deserve my care. | Anger, irritability | Moralizing, reprimanding, reproaching, and minimizing patient needs. There is no time for the patient. | Recognize our own aggressive attitudes and behaviors. Stop denying or rationalizing them. Clarify their background, influence on behaviour and advantages and disadvantages of therapy. Otherwise, the patient should change therapists. Supervision and personal therapy are always needed. |
| Competitive | I will not let him/her think he is better than me. What if he/she handles it better than I do? I have done more in my life than he/she has! | Tension and regret alternate with pride | He competes with the patient in his/her views. He/she convinces or argues about his/her truth—lack of support and empathy. | Work on self-esteem and self-confidence. Supervision and personal therapy are needed to process one’s own attitudes, origins and consequences. If necessary, transfer the patient to another therapist. |
| Distrustful | What does he/she have against me? What does he/she want from me? Does he/she have any hidden intentions? | Nervousness, tension, anger | Withdrawal. Only “formal cooperation with the patient. Lurking for hidden motives. Attempts to cancel therapy. | Work on self-confidence, self-confidence and self-acceptance. Supervision and personal therapy are needed to understand and develop attitudes, origins and effects. If necessary, have the patient change therapist. |
| Erotic | He/she is attractive, and it would be fine with him/her. They imagine how I am with him/her. | Desire, enchantment, “trance”, or depersonalization during a session | Excessive protective behaviour, flirting, fleeting touch. Frequent talking about sex, in the worst-case sex with the patient. | Stop streamlining lascivious behaviour. Stop him completely. Allow countertransference. Find supervision and personal therapy. Understand your own motives, context, background, influence on behaviour, and advantages and disadvantages of therapies. Otherwise, the patient should change therapists. Even after the change, the therapist should not have sex with the patient. |
| Arrogant, contemptuous | He is weak, stupid, hysterical, crazy, etc.). I am bored. I wish they did not bother me. | Contempt, anger, boredom, vanity | Providing simple advice. Trivialization of the patient’s problems and attitudes. Humiliation, ridicule. Lack of time for the patient, improper listening, interrupting the patient before he speaks | The need to work on relationships in one’s own personal therapy., Attend psychotherapeutic training, possibly new, if the experience from the previous ones is not enough to process one’s own attitudes, origin, and consequences. If necessary, transfer the patient to another therapist. |
Case Vignette - Countertransference with the Complaining Patient
| Therapist: This patient does not want to improve. She’s been in therapy for a long time, and she still wants to complain and complain that I feel sorry for her. She avoids working on herself, and I look incompetent. And she’s totally hysterical and overwhelming. I really cannot work with her. If only she were not so irrational. |
Supervisor’s Questions for Countertransference
| ● How do you feel in the presence of this patient? What emotions will awaken in you? What automatic thoughts appear? What feelings appear in your body? Is there anything else that is unusual or interferes with your experience? |
| ● Is your experience with this patient different from what you normally experience with other patients? |
| ● Is your behaviour toward this patient different from your typical behaviour outside of the session or during a session with other patients? |
| ● Have you had any similar feelings, bodily reactions or thoughts in the past? Who was it with? When was it? Has a similar experience ever occurred with your loved ones? |
| ● In what situations in and out of therapy do you have these thoughts, bodily feelings and behavioural reactions? |
| ● What is the latest situation with the patient? What exactly do you remember? What does this mean for you? What else can you think of? Have you ever experienced a similar situation? |
| ● What do you want to tell this patient, what has not been said yet, and what would be difficult to tell him? Which topic are you avoiding with this patient? |
| ● What do you like and dislike about this patient? What do you find sympathetic and sympathetic? |
| ● Are you uncertain about asking about some parts of their medical history or problems? Which areas are affected? How do you understand your hesitation regarding how you know the patient and how you know yourself? |
| ● If you do not feel well with this patient, in what situations does this occur? What’s wrong with you? What do you need the most? Does it remind you of a situation in your life? |
| ● Is there something you perceive to be important to other patients that you do not place so much emphasis on that patient? |
| ● Do you often think of this patient outside the session? What are you thinking about? How do you think you are thinking about this patient? |
An Example of Cognitive Restructuring of a Situation Where the Therapist is Angry with the Patient
| Situation | Thoughts | Emotions | Arguments for | Arguments Against | Constructive Reaction |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| The patient criticizes the therapist for not understanding him very well because she has never experienced such problems. She is also a woman, so she cannot understand men. | He is selfish and still wants me to praise him. He wants me to understand him, but he does not understand the hurting wife, and he controls and humiliates her. | Anger 70% | He describes himself criticizing his wife for trifles. | He says he loves his wife. | |
Case Vignette - Stay a While with the Feelings to Understand Countertransference
| Therapist: I think I do too much for this client. I even wrote the text he could say to his boss between the sessions as he asked me in the e-mail what to say – it was really too much. I feel ashamed, and I did not have to do it … |
Examples of Countertransference Reactions in Supervision
Questions for Self-Reflection About Countertransference
| ● What do I like or dislike about this therapist? What do I see as its strengths and weaknesses? |
Four-Column Record of Supervisor’s Dysfunctional Thoughts
| Situation | Emotions | Automatic Thoughts | Rational Reaction |
|---|---|---|---|
| Alena flips through the patient’s documentation, shuffles the papers, reads the notes at times, then says that she can not find the right notes, flips through again, and starts looking at the documentation again when I ask her questions. | Annoyance | She is not ready for supervision | She is just getting started, and she is worried she will make a mistake. |