| Literature DB >> 35983211 |
Nihal Salman1, Kemal Akkan Batman2, Yasemin Sorakin1.
Abstract
This research is a needs analysis to develop a marriage education program to be held in the TRNC. The aim of the research is to compare the views of married and divorced individuals about marriage education and to determine their needs for marriage education. For this purpose, it has been determined in which subjects they see themselves as sufficient or inadequate, in which subjects they are willing to participate in the training and in which subjects they are unwilling. In this study, embedded design, one of the mixed research methods in which qualitative and quantitative methods are used together, was used. The dominant dimension of this study is the qualitative research method, and the supporting dimension is the quantitative research method. In the qualitative aspect of the research, the sample group was studied with 16 married and divorced participants living in the TRNC. In the quantitative dimension, a total of 385 married or divorced participants were consulted using the sample calculation of unknown universe. The findings are as follows; In both quantitative and qualitative dimensions, the majority of the participants think that if marriage education is given, they can have a healthier and happier marriage. Married and divorced individuals, effective communication, ways of conflict resolution, respect for differences in understanding in raising children, the causes and consequences of cheating, the importance and functions of the family, expectations from marriage and spouse, the processes experienced by new couples, attitudes and behaviors that may adversely affect marriage, power balance and marital status. They stated that they wanted to receive training on adjustment, relations with families in marriage, marriage and business life, anger control, coping with violence and prevention, spending habits and its effects on marriage, effects of financial difficulties on marriage, sexual life and problems in marriage. A training program will be developed for these determined subjects and will be applied to 20 participants in a semi-experimental model through the TRNC Ministry of National Education. The marriage psycho-education program to be prepared will be developed on the basis of a cognitive behavioral approach.Entities:
Keywords: divorce–psychology; marriage; marriage education needs; marriage education program; society and culture
Year: 2022 PMID: 35983211 PMCID: PMC9379273 DOI: 10.3389/fpsyg.2022.963305
Source DB: PubMed Journal: Front Psychol ISSN: 1664-1078
Opinions on the need for marriage education.
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| The importance of communication in marriage | 1. Communication is the most important thing. | 8 | 8 |
| The effect of the problem with relatives and friends on marriage | 1. Adverse effects 2. Does not affect at all 3. We try not to reflect. | 4 | 5 |
| Methods of solving the problem with the spouse | 1. We couldn't solve it. 2. We solve it by walking away during the discussion and then talking. 3. By trying to understand each other. 4. Silently. | 0 | 8 |
| Methods of resolving disagreements in decisions about the child | 1. We make a joint decision by talking. 2. We argue a lot. 3. He usually leaves the decision to me. | 6 | 2 |
| Opinions about cheating | 1. Is disrespectful. 2. It's the end of t trust. 3. It is the reason for the marriage to end. 4. It is an indication that the sexual need is not met in marriage. | 3 | 2 |
| Have you been cheated on? | 1. No. 2. Yes. | 8 | 7 |
| Did you cheat? | 1. No. | 8 | 8 |
| Methods of coping with cheating | 1. I lost my self-confidence. 2. I have never experienced it. 3. I was unresponsive at first, divorced after many times | 0 | 1 |
| Psychological readiness for marriage | 1. Yes. 2. No. | 3 | 1 |
| Social readiness for marriage | 1. Yes.2. No. | 7 | 4 |
| Economic readiness for marriage | 1. Yes.2. No. | 6 | 4 |
| Do you believe you are marrying the right spouse? | 1. Yes.2. No. | 7 | 0 |
| Ways to overcome stress | 1. I withdraw into myself, I dissolve within myself. 2. I solve it by arguing. 3. I stay away from the environment. 4. I find it difficult to overcome. | 1 | 2 |
| The state of controlling anger | 1. I usually do. 2. I can't. | 7 | 5 |
| Exposure to violence | 1. Yes.2. No. | 0 | 2 |
| Violence use status | 1. No 2. Yes. | 8 | 7 |
| Definition of violence | 1. The weakness of masculinity. 2. Inability to express oneself; is weakness. 3. Animalism. 4. On-site required. | 3 | 2 |
| Compatibility with the spouse when balancing the family budget | 1. We are compatible. 2. We are incompatible. 3. We are not very compatible, somehow we get along. | 6 | 1 |
| Methods of ensuring compliance | 1. By talking, we make a joint decision. 2. Everyone is responsible for their own budget 3. It was our biggest reason for discussion. | 5 | 1 |
| Situations in which economic problems affect marriage | 1. It affects a lot. 2. It does not affect much. 3. It does not affect our marriage, but affects our purchasing power. | 6 | 7 |
| Having sexual problems with your partner | 1. No. 2. Yes. 3. We lived in the first years of marriage, then we overcame the problems. | 5 | 3 |
| Definition of sexuality in marriage | 1. It is one of the cornerstones of marriage. | 8 | 8 |
| Sexual compatibility with the spouse | 1. We are compatible. 2. We are not compatible. 3. We are not very compatible, we manage. | 4 | 1 |
| Would you have a healthier and happier marriage if you were given training on the above subjects? | 1. Yes, it would. 2. No, it would not. 3. It would be nice if there was training on some subjects. | 5 | 6 |
| On which subjects would you have a happier and healthier marriage? | 1. Correct communication method. 2. Problem solving skills. 3. Sexuality. 4. Choosing the right mate. 5. To be a parent. | 7 | 8 |
Participants gave more than one code.
Opinions of the participants on marriage education.
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| Yes | 329 | 85.45 |
| No | 11 | 2.86 |
| Maybe | 45 | 11.69 |
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| It helps to make healthier decisions in choosing a spouse. | 68 | 18.18 |
| It helps to make a more conscious decision to marry. | 33 | 8.82 |
| Helps in solving problems experienced or to be experienced in marriage | 76 | 20.32 |
| It helps to become more successful parents. | 48 | 12.83 |
| It helps to have a happier married life. | 145 | 38.77 |
| All | 4 | 1.07 |
Distribution of respondents' responses to the marriage education needs questionnaire.
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| Communication | Do you think healthy communication is important in marriage? | 322 | 83.64 | 63 | 16.36 |
| Do you (did you) have communication problems with your spouse or ex-spouse? | 207 | 53.77 | 178 | 46.23 | |
| If you have children, do you have problems communicating with your child? | 157 | 40.78 | 228 | 59.22 | |
| Did (were) any problems or problems with your relatives affecting your relationship with your spouse or ex-spouse? | 203 | 52.73 | 182 | 47.27 | |
| Do you (did you) have problems with your spouse or ex-spouse because of disagreement when making decisions about your child? | 202 | 52.47 | 183 | 47.53 | |
| Do you think if you receive effective communication training, will you be more successful in solving communication problems in your family? | 291 | 75.58 | 94 | 24.42 | |
| If given about conflict resolution methods; would you (were) more successful in overcoming conflicts in your marriage? | 291 | 75.58 | 94 | 24.42 | |
| If education is given about the reflections of the differences in understanding about raising children on marriage; would it have a positive effect on your marriage? | 283 | 73.51 | 102 | 26.49 | |
| Cheat | Do you think every cheating in marriage should result in divorce? | 226 | 58.70 | 159 | 41.30 |
| Do you think it would be easier to cope with what happened as a result of cheating, if education is given? | 243 | 63.12 | 142 | 36.88 | |
| Would you feel guilty if you cheated on your spouse? | 272 | 70.65 | 113 | 29.35 | |
| Do you think cheating can be prevented if education is given about the causes and consequences of cheating? | 232 | 60.26 | 153 | 39.74 | |
| Readiness for marriage and choosing the right spouse | If education is given on the importance and functions of the family, will it contribute positively to marriage? | 297 | 77.14 | 88 | 22.86 |
| If training is given on the reflections of expectations from marriage and spouse on the marriage union: | 292 | 75.84 | 93 | 24.16 | |
| Given the importance of getting to know each other for couples getting married: | 294 | 76.36 | 91 | 23.64 | |
| If given about the problems and solutions during the preparation for marriage: | 299 | 77.66 | 86 | 22.34 | |
| If given about the processes experienced by newly married couples: | 298 | 77.40 | 87 | 22.60 | |
| If given about habits, attitudes and behaviors that may negatively affect marriage: | 293 | 76.10 | 92 | 23.90 | |
| If given about power, balance and harmony in marriage: | 298 | 77.40 | 87 | 22.60 | |
| If given regarding relations with families in marriage: | 288 | 74.81 | 97 | 25.19 | |
| If given about marriage and business life: | 288 | 74.81 | 97 | 25.19 | |
Distribution of respondents' responses to the marriage education needs questionnaire.
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| Coping with stress | Do you project your anger outwardly? | 184 | 47.79 | 201 | 52.21 |
| Can you control your anger? | 259 | 67.27 | 126 | 32.73 | |
| Do you (where you) extremely angry when you conflict with your spouse or ex-spouse? | 195 | 50.65 | 190 | 49.35 | |
| If you received training on anger management, do you think it would (was) affect your marriage or ex-marriage positively? | 249 | 64.68 | 136 | 35.32 | |
| Violence in marriage | Do you think violence affects marriage negatively? | 292 | 75.84 | 93 | 24.16 |
| Do you think violence is an effective method in communication with both the spouse and the child? | 162 | 42.08 | 223 | 57.92 | |
| Have you been subjected to violence from your spouse in your marriage? | 130 | 33.77 | 255 | 66.23 | |
| Or did you show? | 114 | 29.61 | 271 | 70.39 | |
| Do you think it will affect marriage positively if training is given on coping with violence and prevention? | 275 | 71.43 | 110 | 28.57 | |
| Economy | Are you (were) in tune with your spouse or ex-spouse when balancing the family budget? | 262 | 68.05 | 123 | 31.95 |
| Did (were) economic problems affecting your marriage? | 235 | 61.04 | 150 | 38.96 | |
| If education is given on spending habits and their effects on marriage; Will it have a positive effect on the marriage? | 272 | 70.65 | 113 | 29.35 | |
| If it is given about the effects of financial difficulties on marriage; Will it have a positive effect on the marriage? | 270 | 70.13 | 115 | 29.87 | |
| Sexuality | Do you (did you) encounter sexual problems in your marriage? | 162 | 42.08 | 223 | 57.92 |
| Are you (were) sexually compatible with your spouse or ex-spouse? | 240 | 62.34 | 145 | 37.66 | |
| Would you (would you) have a happier marriage if education was given on sexual life and sexual problems in marriage? | 252 | 65.45 | 133 | 34.55 | |