| I think pediatricians really have to come from a place of advice and education early and often during well baby visits so that parents expect that sort of support and coaching/counseling. |
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Listen first
| Before the discussion takes place, the pediatrician should ask the parents to describe the food/feeding/activity level of the child. It's important to know what's really going on at home in order to know how to frame the conversation going forward. |
| I feel it's most important for the physician or practitioner to fully understand the child and their diet before drawing conclusions or making specific recommendations because every family and child is so different. Pediatricians can usually offer parents great advice if they ask the right questions and receive honest answers from patients and caregivers. This requires strength in communications and diagnosis before even approaching a conversation about obesity. |
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I also think pediatricians should really focus on asking about, supporting and helping parents troubleshoot around the habits that lead to a healthy weight over time (food choices offered and when/how many meals, beverage choices, active play vs screen time, etc.)
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Make it a conversation, not a lecture
| We, as parents, want the best for our children and if what is meant to be helpful advice comes across as accusatory, it can feel like we're not doing a good job. A discussion rather than a lecture from a pediatrician would be much more effective. |
| I definitely think a good bed side manner is imperative. The pediatrician should not come across negative or condescending in any way. |
| I think what I as a parent would like to hear is not that I am doing something wrong right now in this moment, but that I can take steps to positively influence my child's future and provide them a better life. |
| Ultimately, making sure the parent feels confident and not belittled by the doctor will have the best effect. |
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Speak up
| If the baby's pediatrician has expressed concern about the baby's weight, then I would definitely be worried. A medical professional's opinion on weight is important to consider – they have the baby's health as their primary interest – so I trust their perspective. |
| For pediatricians, first of all, the key point is to make sure to parents that the baby's obesity is worth heeding. It is a big deal. |
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Make it a team effort
| Also, if a pediatrician has a concern like the baby is overweight they should take in a positive way and bring up what to do to solve this problem as a team and not like it's all on the parents. |
| If the parent is open to suggestions and change I would help them develop a plan of action in supporting change to lead to a healthier lifestyle. |
| The pediatrician could frame it so that they (the Dr. and the parents) are on the same team, and they will work together give the child the best possible chance at health now and in the future. |
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Involve the whole family
| I think that it is on the parents to set up a new environment to create a “healthy family” instead of just “work on Alexis's weight issues.” This re-framing ensures that Alexis herself is not deemed to be a problem that needs fixing. However, as I said at first, it is difficult for this change to occur if the parents refuse to change their own behaviors, especially those that could be negatively impacting Alexis (like stocking unhealthy snacks, leading very sedentary lifestyles, etc.). |
| [The Friend's Baby] would be an especially difficult conversation because it could not so easily be framed as a “this is an issue for the whole family.” However, I still think that this framing could be tried. |
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Discuss the long-term implications
| I think the best approach is to talk about the other health issues that obesity can cause: heart conditions, diabetes, asthma. Helping the friend to see the long terms effects instead of the here and now might help the friend be more serious. |
| I think it's also important to stress the health issues and complications that can arise from childhood obesity. |
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Their pediatrician should inform them of the possible health risk if they do not improve the weight of their baby
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Start with small, practical changes
| I think for all of us guidance on how to tune into baby's cues and help figure out hunger from distress or boredom can be helpful especially in the toddler years. |
| I also think meal suggestions would help. Most parents understand their child may be overweight but ideas on how to prepare kid friendly healthy meals might help. |
| I also think pediatricians should really focus on asking about, supporting and helping par-ents troubleshoot around the habits that lead to a healthy weight over time (food choices offered and when/how many meals, beverage choices, active play vs screen time, etc.). |
| Doctors can help by providing helpful and easy to digest information for their patients, even if it is redundant. I may be in the minority here, but I would have loved our pediatrician to have provided a list of good snacks at certain ages ¬ in reality, we just googled “healthy snacks” and bought stuff that seemed healthy. |
| Give the parents information on how to cook healthier meals and safe substitutions for sugars and carbs. People don't understand that eating rice is worse for your body than a baked potato. |