| Literature DB >> 35231197 |
Eliza Bond1,2, Joy Clarke3, Christopher Adcock4,5, Sarah Steele1,2,6.
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Year: 2022 PMID: 35231197 PMCID: PMC8972952 DOI: 10.1177/01410768221080777
Source DB: PubMed Journal: J R Soc Med ISSN: 0141-0768 Impact factor: 5.344
Figure 1.The 5Ds of Active Bystander Interventions.
British Medical Association's Definition of Sexual Harassment.
| The BMA states sexual harassment occurs when an individual engages in unwanted behaviour of a sexual nature, which can include: |
| 1. Written or verbal comments of a sexual nature including remarks about an employee's appearance, questions about their sex life, offensive jokes |
| 2. Propositions, advances or making promises in return for sexual favours |
| 3. Emails/social media messaging with content of a sexual nature |
| 4. Displaying pornographic or explicit images |
| 5. Unwanted physical contact and touching |
| 6. Criminal behaviour, including sexual assault, stalking, indecent exposure and offensive communications. |
Source: BMA: British Medical Association.
But what if I realise I’ve done something problematic or am ‘called out’?.
| Everyone has moments when they have said or done something disrespectful that they regret. Sometimes we misjudge a situation or did something in the past before we realised the conduct was problematic. Sometimes we do not realise the discomfort caused by our words and actions. |
| It is common to feel shame or anger when our behaviour is called out. Take a minute to notice how you are feeling and acknowledge those emotions. When somebody points out your conduct was problematic, they are not necessarily attacking you as a person. |
| Sometimes we want to explain and be forgiven, but this might not be on offer at that moment. Part of empowerment is allowing the other person to speak and be heard, and if you appear to only want to see and explain your side of the story, you might compound the issue. Open questions can be helpful: ‘how did I make you feel?’ or ‘what do I need to know or do differently to be better next time?’. Asking questions tells the other person you are listening. Their answers might be difficult to hear, but this openness can show you are trying to take feedback onboard. If able to, offer an apology and take accountability. Depending on the severity of what has occurred, having a mediator or third-party present may be helpful. |
| If you are in doubt as to whether your conduct could leave you subject to Fitness to Practise Proceedings by the GMC or was criminal under the Sexual Offences Act 2003, Protection from Harassment Act 1997 or associated legislation, you should always seek the advice of a lawyer. |