| Literature DB >> 34128183 |
Melissa C Mercado-Crespo1, Martha L Coulter2, Carol Bryant2, Randy Borum3, Kay M Perrin2, Kristine Nodarse-Hernández2.
Abstract
Preadolescents' involvement in religious congregations may serve as a distal protective factor against aggression. Interviews were conducted to explore Puerto Rico (PR) Christian church and faith-based organization (FBO) leaders' knowledge and perceptions about preadolescent violence, and the role of congregations in its prevention. Bullying was perceived as the most common type of aggression among PR preadolescents. Education, positive role modeling, and relationships with pro-social adults are considered important in its prevention. While willing to engage in violence prevention efforts, congregations may possess limited knowledge on the topic and its relevance. Findings can help inform the development of collaborative research and prevention efforts at the family and community levels.Entities:
Year: 2021 PMID: 34128183 PMCID: PMC8202537 DOI: 10.1007/s10943-021-01304-8
Source DB: PubMed Journal: J Relig Health ISSN: 0022-4197
Common PR beliefs or sayings that demonstrate acceptance of violence, as per participants
| Puerto Rican belief or saying, in Spanish | English translation | Explanation |
|---|---|---|
| Let him behave like a man! | In this context, behaving ‘like a man’ implies being violent, within the | |
| If she has to smack someone, react, not submit to him… Let her do it! | Supports females’ violent reaction against | |
| God forbid that you hit anyone before they hit you! | Does not support initiation of physical violence. Yet, it does not reject it as a response to physical violence either | |
| What are you waiting for? For him to get killed before he hits others? | Justifies physical violence as a survival mechanism | |
Stop bothering me! (Said by parent to child) | Usually said by the parent to a child in an angry tone, demonstrates the types of verbal violence children may be exposed to | |
| I'm going to hit before I get hit | Supports initiation of physical violence, as a protection mechanism | |
| Whoever hits first, hits twice | Puerto Rican refrain, mentioned twice throughout the interviews. Supports initiation of physical violence, and portrays it as beneficial | |
| Girls play with dolls. Boys hit back… don’t let yourself be taken advantage of at school | Supports cultural gender roles and |
Sample quotes from participants
| Theme | Quotes from participants |
|---|---|
| Violence triggers | “Frustration because they cannot reach the standards established by [the Department of] Education, teachers, parents, society. Because they are ridiculed by peers or authority figures. Because they do not understand the situations going on at home.” |
| Parents’ role | “Parents don’t realize that preadolescents’ character is changing. They are becoming more independent, and they [parents] don’t realize it. Preadolescents want their identity. […] People are not aware of children’s developmental stages, nor their own!” |
| Gender differences | “Girls belongs at home; boys, in the street. Our culture mostly identifies males with violence. A boy doesn’t cry; he’s a macho.” “We teach girls to be more submissive, quiet, not to shout. It’s a gender issue. It is not that we shouldn’t teach this to boys… but that’s the way it is. We tell boys to go ‘meterse a los puños’ [get into a fist fight] and ‘behave like a man’.” |
| Age differences | “Yes, there is physical and verbal violence. At 15 or 17 years they are already carrying weapons at school. They are ‘mulas’ [drug carriers], watchdogs at ‘el punto’. They hang out with adults that teach them how to move about the drug trafficking business.” “It is not the same thing to reach an adolescent than a preadolescent. Adolescents are more concrete, direct, inquisitive… With preadolescents it’s more an emotional thing. You can ‘play’ a little more [as a strategy], and parents still retain some sort of control.” |
| Prevention focus | “If the preadolescent has not reached the violence level of adolescents, then we need to get him there. It would be prevention work. Now, strategically, it [the focus/emphasis] should be on adolescents. They are in a pretty bad shape; something must be done.” |
| Role of churches | “The church is doing something, but it can certainly do more. […] There’s an opportunity to do more.” “Offer activities for children outside of school grounds, extracurricular, to be offered during non-school hours… That are constructive, provide recreation, safety… Offer tutoring services… These type of activities may provide a scenario to talk about this [violence].” “The church is part of society; it is composed of segments from society, and must have an active role in families’ development. Not only preaching. Use programs, ministries, missions, whatever you want to call it to help families, prevent violence’s crescendo.” |
| Barriers for churches | “The church must be a catalytic agent and be involved in everything that happens in the community. […] Impact must occur, and it doesn’t mean that everyone will be a Christian. We know that won’t happen.” “The Church must not be to give remedies, but be preventive. God established the Church to be a preventive entity. […] The Department of the Family, the government should not see churches as a threat but as a helping arm.” “Generally, the Church is willing… if the leader gets involved. […] First leaders; motivate them, they will motivate.” “[We should] open doors for people knowledgeable on this issue—like you, social workers, psychologists, people with expertise in telling the people about the existence of this problem and how we can help. The Church has been too shy.” “Facing this challenge requires education [of the congregation], especially on the risks, why is it necessary, and the implications [of preadolescent violence]. If not, it loses effectiveness.” |
| Church and society | “Churches have an important role within the social development, formation of our society. Our society is full of violence, and what is the church doing? You leave me with that question. And even more here in PR, where we have a church in almost every corner.” “Christianity implies that you get involved, under penalty of not being a good Christian. [The Apostle] James said, ‘how can you love God that you do not see if you do not love the brother that you do see?’ Our faith must prompt us to get involved.” “Education is primordial. What focus are we giving to [kids’] camps? Are we limiting them to Bible stories, or to prevent social problems?” “Churches must join forces with community and government leaders. There must be good communication between them, because we all share one community. We must sit down at the table and talk. We can all bring something to the table.” |