| Before the age of 12 I was raped by my own dad (starting at 5 years of age till 8 years) | 18–24 | Frequent unwanted sexual experiences since the age of 12Unwanted sexual experiences – unable to give consent (intoxication) since the age of 12Experienced threatened and actual physical violenceExposure to strangulationUnwanted sexual experiences with a partner and a stranger – unable to give consent (intoxication) | CSA by father from the age 5Sexual revictimization since the age of 12 |
| The unwanted experience happened when I was 12 years old and has significantly impacted my ability to engage with others beyond being friends. I am overcome with distress when faced with an interaction that could potentially lead to a relationship | 18–24 | Unwanted sexual experiences since the age of 12 using forceExperienced threatened and actual physical violence (including a weapon)Exposure to strangulationPartner used force to engage in unwanted sexual activityPartner used coercion/ force to obtain intimate images | CSA from the age of 12Sexual revictimization since the age of 12DistressInterpersonal problems – difficulty forming relationships |
| My answers aren’t from the perpetrator being a partner they were my dad. So it isn’t just partners, it’s very much so family | 18–24 | Unwanted sexual experiences in the past yearUnwanted sexual experiences since the age of 12Unable to give consent (intoxication) since the age of 12Threatened and actual physical violence since the age of 12 (including use of weapon)Experienced physical violence in the past year (including use of a weapon)Coerced and forced fellatio since the age of 12Coerced intercourse in the past yearCoerced intercourse since the age of 12Unable to give consent (intoxication) in the past yearThreats of harm in the past yearThreats of harm since the age of 12Coerced anal intercourse in the past yearCoerced anal intercourse since the age of 12Multiple occasions when unable to give consent (intoxication) since the age of 12Frequent threats of harm in the past yearExperienced strangulationCoerced and forced intercourse by a partnerUnwanted sexual experience with a friend – unable to consent (intoxication)Partner used coercion/force to obtain intimate imagesPartner coerced/forced to watch pornPartner used coercion/force to produce pornPartner threatened to share intimate imagesPartner used coercion to re-enact what was seen in porn moviesAnal intercourse against will | CSA by fatherSexual revictimization since the age of 12 |
| Coerced into things too young to know any better; told not to tell parents/family because I would get into trouble | 18–24 | Unwanted sexual experiences since the age of 12Multiple occasions where she was unable to give consent (intoxication) since the age of 12Multiple occasions of coerced sexual activity under threat of physical violence since the age of 12Forced sexual activity in the past yearMultiple occasions of forced sexual activity since the age of 12Coerced and forced fellatio since the age of 12 and threats of physical violenceCoerced and forced fellatio in the past yearCoerced intercourse in the past yearCoerced and forced intercourse since the age of 12Threats and actual sexual violenceExperienced strangulationUnwanted (forced) sexual experiences with intimate partnerUnwanted sexual experiences with a friendCoerced/forced by a partner to take intimate imagesCoerced/forced by a partner to watch pornPartner shared intimate images against her will | Sexual revictimization since the age of 12 |
| A few of those things did happen to me but I was under 12 when they happened | 18–24 | Experienced threatened and actual physical violenceUnwanted sexual experiences with a stranger and a friend – unable to give consent (intoxication)Unwanted sexual intercourse with a partner due to threat to end relationshipPartner used coercion/force to obtain intimate imagesPartner used coercion to re-enact what was seen in porn moviesAnal intercourse against her will | CSA before the age of 12Sexual revictimization since the age of 12 |
| Sexually assaulted by a family member when I was 5 | 18–24 | No victimization reported since age 12 | CSA from the age of 5 |
| I was also sexually assaulted/raped by my mother’s partner from ages 7–11 | 18–24 | Unwanted sexual experiences in the past yearUnwanted sexual experiences since the age of 12Unable to give consentCoerced/forced intercourse in the past yearCoerced/forced intercourse since the age of 12 | CSA from the age of 7Sexual revictimization since the age of 12 |
| I am a victim of child sexual abuse, I was abused for six years by my mother’s partner. After she left him and I turned 18 years old I sought advice from a counsellor, pressed charges of which he was convicted. . .. | 25–34 | Multiple forced unwanted sexual experiences since the age of 12Multiple occasions of coerced and forced fellatio since the age of 12Multiple occasions of coerced and forced intercourse since the age of 12Multiple occasions of intercourse when unable to give consent (intoxication) since the age of 12Experienced strangulationUnwanted sexual experiences with a friend – unable to consent (intoxication)Unwanted sexual experiences with a stranger – unable to consent (intoxication) | CSA from the age of 6Sexual revictimization since the age of 12 |
| I was sexually abused for 4 years as a child under 12 years of age | 25–34 | Coerced and forced fellatio since the age of 12Coerced and forced fellatio in the past yearCoerced and forced anal intercourse since the age of 12Coerced and forced anal intercourse in the past yearUnable to give consent (intoxication)Partner used actual/threats of physical violence to obtain sexual intercourseUnwanted sexual experiences with a strangerUnwanted sexual experiences with a friendCoerced/forced by a partner to take intimate imagesCoerced/forced by a partner to view pornPressured into re-enacting porn by a partnerPartner threatened to share intimate images | CSA for 4 years before the age of 12Sexual revictimization since the age of 12 |
| The small amount of childhood touching of clothing was from an uncle, however, at the time I was not aware that this was classed as abuse | 45–54 | Experienced threatened and actual physical violence (including with a weapon) | CSA by uncleNon-sexual intimate partner violence |
| My one off incident was before the age of 12 by a friend’s father | 45–54 | Coerced sexual activity since the age of 12 | CSA by uncleSexual revictimization since the age of 12 |
| For many of us I would imagine sexual assault occurred much earlier – in my case 7 years old. . . many of us have learned from a very early age that others can’t be trusted, noting that this serves to protect us but also deprives us of the opportunity to have fun similar to our peers which creates a different set of consequences | 45–54 | Unwanted sexual experiences since the age of 12Coerced fellatio with threats of physical harm since the age of 12Forced fellatio since the age of 12Forced intercourse since the age of 12Threats of and actual physical violence including strangulation to obtain sexual intercourse since the age of 12 | CSA from the age of 7Sexual revictimization since the age of 12Trust issues |
| I was molested as a child by a neighbour and had a doctor grab my genitals without permission during an unrelated medical examination | 45–54 | Unwanted sexual experiences since the age of 12Unable to give consent (intoxication)Coerced/forced intercourseUnwanted sexual experiences with several individuals including a stranger; a friend; and intimate partner due to intoxication | CSA by multiple perpetratorsSexual revictimization since the age of 12Distrust |
| My non-consensual coerced sexual experiences happened around 9 years which then later led to excessive substance use, promiscuity, mental health issues and dropped out of uni. . . | 45–54 | Frequent unwanted sexual experiences in the past yearUnwanted sexual experiences with a friendPartner shared intimate images without consent | CSA from the age of 9Sexual revictimization since the age of 12Mental health problemsSubstance use issuesSexual risk behavioursEducational impact |
| Sexual abuse as a child by a member of my own family | 45–54 | Experienced physical violenceUnwanted sexual experience with friend – unable to consent (intoxication)Coerced intercourse by partner (threat to end relationship)Partner threatened to share intimate images | CSA by family memberSexual revictimization since the age of 12 |