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A good relationship with colleagues is very important; as long as I thrive among colleagues, I feel like I can do almost anything.
Good relationships with colleagues promote things to go very well. In turn, I think we thrive when working together and are a fine team. When the work flows easily, it involves recognition of our relationships, both the colleagues and me.
I think collegial relationships must be a basis for going to the patients and coming back to colleagues when having experienced tough things and feeling powerless.
Many nurses are doing a fantastic job. They catch important things related to the patient and ‘fix it’. This means that they dare to stand up for the patient with professionality. I would not be afraid to let them take care of any of my loved ones. My colleagues have high professional awareness and discuss relevant issues that I’m interested in and need to discuss. It is a good thing. It makes me aware and proud of the performance of quality nursing care.
We had a kind of “I’m agreeing with you attitude”, and we thematize issues by asking, “What is the problem? Can we manage the problem, or do we need assistance from other professionals?”
Colleagues do understand what I’m talking about, and thus, when the situation is tough and tragic things happen, it is the colleagues who are staying there. We stay together within the situation.
When tragic things have happened with a patient, then it has been possible to come through with the help of colleagues.
When we get strong impressions in meeting with patients, it revolves around ‘working in teams’, and we are mutually dependent on each other as colleagues and need to stay together.
Having experienced challenging situations and managed them, it can nonetheless be a tough thing going back to work. However, I often came through such situations with the help of colleagues. We stay together. It gives me a feeling of being stronger than I was before.
| Nurses would not have given up the content of their relationships with nursing colleagues for anything in the world. The relationships gave a sense of being cared about and provided a sympathetic atmosphere. Support was a common experience. The nurses verbally expressed how much they appreciated seeing each other, which was important at the beginning of a working day and created a basis for a good day. Colleagues were perceived as great and talented colleagues who deserved to be honored. Colleagues offered support by explicitly telling each other how professionally inspired they felt from working together. Staying together was crucial for nurses, particularly when unforeseen situations occurred and nurses had to rely on each other to accomplish difficult tasks. | Having indispensable relationships | Solidarity is based on the assumption of relationality as a given life condition according to which human beings are mutually dependent on one another and taking care of each other’s best interests (Løgstrup, 1993). Relationality is perceived as an integral part of solidarity (Løgstrup, 1993). However, two central aspects must be added to characterize solidarity: what is common and the obligation that arises from the common (Løgstrup, 1993, p. 8). The obligation involves supporting the other based on what is common and standing together simply because something is common (Løgstrup, 1993). |
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It is rather hard when you have a sense of being rejected or ignored and nobody cares.
Nursing practice is often performed ‘in the middle of a cauldron’.
Some colleagues can contribute to a different work atmosphere, and we have to struggle with them. In addition, the patients are very ill. In a way, the working days become doubly hard, and going to work becomes challenging when our collegial relationships are difficult.
Colleagues can be unable to adapt, and when you face situations where colleagues really should not have been there, it is tough and inhibits me and the work I have to do. It’s not easy to get rid of that colleague either.
Experiencing that colleagues did not welcome me or didn’t like me coming to the job represents a barrier to go to work.
Struggling with colleagues represents a double struggle.
I have experienced negative colleagues as an inhibitor.
I’m doing complex and very uncomfortable work, and despite this, I don’t get the help that I need from colleagues when caring for very ill patients.
The times I most dread going to work is when there has been a collegial conflict. This is one of the most tiring things that exists; it drains your energy.
Experiencing that colleagues did not welcoming me or didn’t like me coming to the job represents a barrier to go to work.
| The content of what was common among colleagues involved a relative absence of sympathy that gave rise to effort: maintaining indispensable relationships and demonstrating commitment to the community of nursing colleagues became demanding. Negative verbal or nonverbal responses influenced individual nurses’ destinies, causing difficulty in understanding what to do and how to do it when wanting to look out for colleagues’ best interests. A relative absence of sympathy caused thoughts and feelings described as resentment and recrimination and thus a loss of the desire to work | Encountering a relative absence of sympathy | Solidarity is based on the assumption of relationality as a given life condition (Løgstrup, 1993). The content of what is common can be anything, implying that what is common stands open and must be understood in context (Løgstrup, 1993). The obligation involves standing together simply because something is common (Løgstrup, 1993). A lack of sympathy often occurs when tensions exit and something evokes uncertainty or reactions such as irritation, unsatisfaction, or antipathy (Løgstrup, 1991). |