| The need for non-medical information for daily life | What information was talked about: |
| And he [the doctor] explained everything very well. So he meticulously told me more than I wanted to know, yes – but about what comes after, not really, he couldn’t really. That’s why it’s so annoying. Why can they not make a program out of it, offering people who are affected, if they want that? So that I can talk to them, ask how they coped with the procedure and with the consequences. (Male, 50–65 age range at time of interview) |
| Physicians don’t have that much time and talking to a doctor isn’t the same as talking to someone else with CRC. This is much more emotional, or… not sure how to say this, but it is just much more trustworthy than the theoretical knowledge of a physician. (Male, 65–80 age range at time of interview) |
| How information was sought: |
| So I went to the bookstore and looked, or I watched when there was a program on TV, where I could read up or also on the internet, but it wasn’t really that much. So I only had the books that my daughter gave me or that I bought myself. And I also possessed one, two books that never interested me and I never read. […] What was not for me and that did not fit, I ignored. (Female, 50–65 age range at time of interview) |
| Monday I was discharged, and Tuesday I took my computer and was searching for a group for my [stoma] bag, because I had questions, I needed help, I needed support. […]. (Female, 35–50 age range at time of interview) |
| The challenge of integrating the bodily changes that accompany CRC in everyday life | And when it [the stoma] gets wet, then it gets tight. Then no gas can escape. The bag gets bigger. And pressure can build up in it. Then the whole thing is leaking at the pass ring. And then it starts again with the irritation of the skin. Ileostomy care is a craft, you have to learn it. Learning-by-doing in this case. (Male, 65–80 age range at time of interview) |
| We stopped taking bus trips. We drive with our car, since you can go to a restroom at a gas station as needed. And there you can also change your clothes on the way, if something happens. Well, I'm fine with that. And I’ve learned to tighten my pelvic floor muscles through pelvic floor exercises, so that at least the bowel movements no longer constantly run away on their own. (Male, 65–80 age range at time of interview) |
| Sources of non-medical information on how to handle daily life | Stoma and nutritional therapists:This with the stoma nurse, with Nurse XG [name of the stoma nurse], […] I really bought into her competence, she really knows her stuff. And I still have contact with her today, she still advises me. (Female, 50–65 age range at time of interview)And it’s also quite common in hospitals today that there is always an extra nurse on the ward who is a trained stoma therapist, and who then shows you how the whole care goes and who explains everything. And fortunately for me that was also really great.[…] Because I could not imagine at first, or at the time in the hospital I still could not imagine what it would be like. (Male, 20–35 age range at time of interview)Others who have experienced CRC:And certain topics you can only discuss with other cancer patients. And I have to say that this gave me a lot and I still benefit a lot now here at home from my conversations with other patients. (Female, 50–65 age range at time of interview)That’s easy – you just talk differently. Since the other person [fellow CRC patient] knows what I'm talking about when I say, “Oh, I have a skin irritation” or “What do you know, the plate is not holding”. And you simply get tips or information. You just talk differently, and the other person knows what you are talking about. (Female, 35–50 age range at time of interview)And that, of course, you talk about things that you do not talk about with the non-patient. Especially about the stoma and bag and feelings in and around the belly – it’s clear. And then she [fellow CRC patient] told me how it all is. How to attach a stoma [bag], how to clean it, what can happen and how to empty bags and – disasters, truly. (Male, 50–65 age range at time of interview)Self-help groups as an organised form of information for CRC patientsThen at the hospital, someone visited me from the self-help group. That was a young woman, and then – I then specifically asked about restrictions and the like, and then she actually said: “Well, so with a colostomy everything is actually possible, if you want it”.[…] So this visit gave me a lot back then […], all my fears that I would have to continue my life completely, well, as a half-cripple, those fears actually went away […]. (Male, 65–80 age range at time of interview)And at that time, this hospital pastor told me a sentence that today also explains why I’m so intensively involved in self-help. He told me that blind people cannot explain colours. (Female, 50–65 age range at time of interview)I've found that handling the bag, that’s not the problem. People learn that. But most people fall into a deep hole. They believe that you can no longer go around normally. Can’t do anything anymore. […]. When I come and tell them [about myself], I come on my bike, they see that. (Male, 80+ age range at time of interview)Well, it’s a pity [about the self-help group demographics], because I would’ve also liked to meet directly with people of my age who are affected. […] Because our whole everyday life looks different […]. (Male, 20–35 age range at time of interview) |