| Literature DB >> 33619975 |
Pamela Durepos1, Noori Akhtar-Danesh2, Jenny Ploeg2,3, Tamara Sussman4, Sharon Kaasalainen2.
Abstract
BACKGROUND: Family caregivers of persons with dementia often feel unprepared for end-of-life and preparedness predicts caregiver outcomes in bereavement. Existing questionnaires assessing preparedness have limitations. A multi-dimensional questionnaire assessing family caregiver preparedness for the end-of-life of persons with dementia is needed to identify caregivers at risk for negative outcomes in bereavement and evaluate the quality of strategies within a palliative approach. AIM: To develop a multi-dimensional questionnaire titled 'Caring Ahead' to assess feelings of preparedness for end-of-life in family caregivers of persons with dementia.Entities:
Keywords: Caregiver; death and dying; death preparedness; dementia; long-term care; mixed methods; outcome measure; palliative care; questionnaire
Mesh:
Year: 2021 PMID: 33619975 PMCID: PMC8022086 DOI: 10.1177/0269216321994732
Source DB: PubMed Journal: Palliat Med ISSN: 0269-2163 Impact factor: 4.762
Figure 1.‘Caregiver preparedness for end-of-life with dementia’ model.
Source: Reprinted with permission from Durepos et al.[20]
Figure 2.Mixed methods design: exploratory, sequential quantitative dominant status, instrument-variant design (qualitative → QUANTITATIVE).
Phase 2 Delphi-survey panelists.
| Caregiver panel ( | Mean (SD) | ||
|---|---|---|---|
| Age (years) | 58.8 (11.2) | ||
| Gender identity | Female | 3 (60) | |
| Male | 2 (40) | ||
| Relationship | Spouse | 1 (20) | |
| Adult child | 2 (40) | ||
| Adult child in-law | 2 (40) | ||
| Caregiver status | Bereaved | 3 (60) | |
| Current | 2 (40) | ||
| Expert panel ( | Mean (SD) | N (%) | |
| Age (years) | 49.8 (13.7) | ||
| Gender identity | Female | 10 (83) | |
| Male | 2 (17) | ||
| Years of experience | 20.2 (12.6) | ||
| Discipline | Medicine | 2 (17) | |
| Nursing | 2 (17) | ||
| Psychology | 2 (17) | ||
| Health research | 1 (7) | ||
| Social work | 2 (17) | ||
| Spiritual care | 2 (17) | ||
| Law | 1 (7) | ||
| Setting | Clinical/community | 6 (50) | |
| Academic/research | 6 (50) | ||
| Country | Canada | 8 (67) | |
| Europe | 1 (8) | ||
| USA | 3 (25) | ||
Phase 1 findings: Preparedness indicators, quotes and potential questionnaire items (n = 73) sampling preparedness domains, traits and core concepts.
| Domain | Question item | Behavioural indicator | Quote | Potential item | Trait | Core concept |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Medical | Q1 | Information-seeking on dementia | ‘We worked really hard to educate ourselves about what was coming down the pipe’ | I look for information to understand dementia in the later stages | Beh | Control |
| Q2 | Knowing the trajectory of dementia | ‘I knew the progression of the disease. . .she stopped swallowing’ | I feel confident I know what changes to expect in the future as my family member’s dementia advances, for example: pneumonia, infections, increased behaviours or difficulty eating | Cog | Control | |
| Q3 | Knowing that dementia is incurable | ‘It is part of the acceptance. There is no going back, there’s no cure’ | I understand that dementia (including Alzheimer’s) is a life-threatening (fatal) condition with no cure | Cog | Control | |
| Q4 | Knowing what decisions may be needed | ‘We would not resuscitate her because that’s not what she would want. But then we also didn’t want. . .her in pain in a nursing home with a Urinary Tract infection that could be treated with IV. So, we need to be consulted each time something comes up so we can make that decision’. | I understand treatment decisions I may need to make for my family member, for example: using antibiotics, intravenous (IV) fluid, transferring to hospital, tubes for feeding or breathing | Cog | Control | |
| Q5 | Knowing about causes of dying with dementia | ‘I kind of knew. . .that Pneumonia is a common thing with the elderly’ | I understand that dying from an infection like pneumonia, is a natural way to die for a person with dementia | Cog | Control | |
| Q6 | Understanding medical information provided by staff | ‘The nurses and doctors were also very good at dumbing things down because they do it a lot’ | Care providers explain medical information in a way that I can understand, for example: printed pamphlets, face to face discussion | Cog | Control | |
| Q7 | Knowing about current health status | ‘[Staff] were very forthright about what was happening. . . and helped to prepare us every step of the way’ | I feel I understand my family member’s current state of health, for example: their stage of dementia | Cog | Control | |
| Q8 | Recognising decline | ‘I saw that the week or two before that she was eating less and less and having a harder time swallowing. . .I was sort of prepared and knew what was going to happen’ | I recognise decline in my family member’s health, for example: eating less, less social, behaviour changes (more or less) | Aff | Control | |
| Q9 | Knowing the person with dementia’s goals | ‘Know what your loved ones wishes are. . .’ | I feel confident I know what my family member would choose for care if they could, for example: to focus on lengthening life, comfort/quality of life, or a combination of both | Cog | Oblig | |
| Q10 | Discussing goals with staff | ‘[Staff] were good at asking us what we wanted and guiding us to be realistic. . .right from the beginning’ | Care providers and I have discussed my family member’s wishes and goals for the end-of-life, for example: to focus on lengthening life, comfort/quality of life, or a combination of both | Beh | Control | |
| Q11 | Discussing goals with family | ‘It was a family decision. . .we decided we will treat him with whatever happens in the home’ | My family and I have discussed possible treatments or goals for our family member with dementia, for example: prolonging life, transferring to hospital, focusing on quality of life, dying in the care facility | Beh | Control | |
| Q12 | Discussing care preferences with staff | ‘The head nurse told me that unless I wanted him to go to hospital there was nothing they could do and that if he went to hospital, they would start all kinds of interventions, which she didn’t recommend’ | Care providers and I have discussed preferences around hospital transfer for treatments if issues arise | Beh | Control | |
| Q13 | Planning care to meet needs with staff | ‘I knew we wouldn’t let him be uncomfortable. . .’ | Care providers and I have discussed a plan for keeping my family member comfortable in his/her last hours, for example: treating pain or restlessness | Beh | Control | |
| Q14 | Knowing the prognosis | ‘He said, ‘it sounds like he is palliative’ and it was just reassuring to hear that’ | Care providers and I have discussed how long my family member may live | Cog | Control | |
| Q15 | Discussing communication preferences | ‘Whenever there was any change. . .we were notified of that. . .I liked that’ | Care providers and I have discussed how I should be notified if my family member is dying, for example: call anytime, call only during the day | Beh | Control | |
| Q16 | Confident in skills to provide care | ‘I intuitively know what people with dementia need. . .I moved a bed into her room. I changed everything around. I got a lavender thing. I put classical music in there. I put pictures up that she knew. I just made it as cozy as I possibly could’ | I feel confident that I can help care for my family member when they are dying, in the way that I would like | Beh | Control | |
| Q17 | Knowing about the dying process | ‘People need to know what to expect. They’re going to make raspy breathing sounds’ | I understand the process of dying, for example: noisy 'rattling' breathing, pale / cool skin, stopping eating, restlessness or drowsiness. | Cog | Control | |
| Q18 | Discussing death location with staff | ‘We. . .talked to the nursing home about resuscitation. . .If we had a preference it would have been to pass away in the nursing home versus a hospital setting’ | Care providers and I have discussed the location where I would like my family member’s death to occur | Beh | Control | |
| Q19 | Discussing preferences for dying (e.g., pain management) with staff | ‘I did suggest to [staff] they have a cot or something. . .if people want to stay. . .’ | Care providers and I have discussed my preferences for when my family member is dying, for example: having a cot in the room, having music, having a private room, not wanting them to be alone, wanting to be present or not | Beh | Control | |
| Q20 | Global medical preparedness | Overall, I feel prepared for medical changes which might occur when my family member is dying | Global | Control | ||
| Relationship/personal | ||||||
| Q21 | *Limited support from family for care | ‘Surround yourself with support. . .When you’re alone you’re just anxious. . .You don’t know what your loved one is going to need’ | I do not feel I will receive enough support from family and friends around my family member’s death, for example: making decisions, providing hands-on care | Aff | Adapt | |
| *Reverse worded item | ||||||
| Q22 | *Concern for conflicts in care with family/friends | ‘Everyone just kind of shied away from the conflict. . .Families need to have some guidance in how to have those difficult conversations’ | I expect there will be conflicts (i.e., disagreements) in my family around my family member’s death | Aff | Adapt | |
| *Reverse worded item | ||||||
| Q23 | Confident to meet needs of the person with dementia | ‘This is my specialty. . .we were checking all the boxes. . .’ | I feel confident in my responsibilities for my family member in their care facility, for example: decision-maker, companion, hands-on-care provider | Aff | Control | |
| Q24 | Advocating for the person with dementia | ‘You have to take the leadership role and be the advocate’ | I am confident that I can be a strong advocate for my family member’s needs | Beh | Control | |
| Q25 | Managing the situation | ‘You know that meant a lot having everything just the way you want it. . .it comes down to being able to be in control of what you need and want that really was important’ | I feel I have some control over the care of my family member | Beh | Control | |
| Q26 | Trusting staff with care | ‘The charge nurse. . .had her finger on everything’ | I feel confident that care providers will provide quality end-of-life care for my family member | Aff | Control | |
| Q27 | *Limited collaboration with staff | ‘You can’t rely on the staff’ | I do not feel satisfied with the relationship I have with my family member’s care providers | Aff | Control | |
| *Reverse worded item | ||||||
| Q28 | Feeling staff are accessible | ‘Communication is the key to everything right? I mean when you feel informed you feel a little more in control’ | I feel confident that I can speak to care providers when I would like to | Aff | Control | |
| Q29 | Feeling emotionally supported by staff | ‘Everybody needs support of people around them. . .there were some staff there that were really good at listening to myself, my sister and my wife’ | I feel confident that I will receive enough emotional support from care providers when my family member is dying, for example: by listening to my concerns, providing words of comfort or being present | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q30 | *Feeling concern over conflicts with staff | ‘They basically said, ‘we need you to come pick up your mom’s furniture’. . .it was really upsetting. . .not an hour after the funeral’ | I expect to have conflict (i.e., disagreements) with care providers around my family member’s death | Aff | Adapt | |
| *Reverse worded item | ||||||
| Q31 | Having supportive resources to prepare for death | ‘[Staff] helped to prepare us every step of the way’ | Overall, care providers are supportive in helping me prepare for my family member’s death | Global | Control | |
| Q32 | Recognising your emotions | ‘I think you know really we’re in a quiet mourning even when they’re still around at the end. . .I think that’s something that’s good for people to know’ | I recognise that I may be grieving before my family member with dementia has died | Cog | Adapt | |
| Q33 | Knowing what emotions to expect | ‘I was surprised that I was so grief stricken by it’ | I understand that I may experience strong emotions that are normal when my family member dies, for example: intense grief, numbness, relief or shock | Cog | Adapt | |
| Q34 | Feeling capable to cope with emotions | ‘Giving into the grief was important. Allowing myself to feel the grief and the sadness and ‘go into the feeling’. . .not to avoid the feelings, to go in to them and to go through them. . .let myself be sad. Again, I turned down so many invitations’ | I feel confident that I can cope with emotions (e.g., grief) I may experience | Beh | Adapt | |
| Q35 | Having access to emotional support | ‘Everybody should take advantage of counselling’ | I can access additional emotional support if I need to, for example: from a support group or counsellors | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q36 | Reconciling and closing the relationship with the PWD | ‘Tell them what you want to tell them. Do what you have to do to be free of any guilt, remorse, regret. Tell them the truth. Even if you don’t think they can hear you, tell them the truth. . .say what you need to say’ | I have said the things I needed to say to my family member | Beh | Adapt | |
| Q37 | Accepting changing relationship | ‘I was ready to let that go’ | I feel prepared to let go of my family member | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q38 | Valuing the family member’s life | ‘I have absolutely no regrets. . .I treated her like a queen’ | I am satisfied with how much time I am able to spend with my family member | Beh | Oblig | |
| Spiritual | ||||||
| Q39 | Accepting death is imminent | ‘She was 93 so I really knew it could be any time’ | I have accepted that my family member’s time may be short | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q40 | Accepting death is inevitable | ‘You knew he was going to die you just didn’t know when’ | I have accepted that I cannot change my family member’s future | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q41 | *Avoiding thinking about death | ‘I went on thinking, he’s just never going to die, I’m never going to have to deal with it. . .I just ignored it all the time so that when it actually occurred I was in shock’ | I avoid thinking about my family member’s death | Aff | Adapt | |
| *Reverse worded item | ||||||
| Q42 | Reflecting on caregiving and finding positives | ‘I think you have to find the purpose and the meaning in things because it’s part of healing’ | I recall positive moments that occurred during my time as a caregiver | Beh | Adapt | |
| Q43 | Accepting personal limitations | ‘I’ve spent a lot of time forgiving myself. . .my smart brain knows there’s nothing more I could do. . .I did my best’ | I have accepted that I have done my best as a caregiver for my family member | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q44 | Finding meaning in caregiving | ‘I have only gratitude and I think having the experience of being a caregiver has been good for me, really good for me’ | I feel I have grown as a person through caregiving | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q45 | Coping with emotions | ‘It helped. . .having my faith. . .I would talk to God and the angels a lot. . .It was a spiritual experience. Just being there with him it was so peaceful….and it meant so much just to be outside’ | I can practice activities which help me to feel at peace if I want, for example: spending time in nature, reflective time or prayer | Beh | Adapt | |
| Q46 | Finding meaning in death | ‘I knew she was ready. She lived a good life and what she wanted to die’ | I can make sense of my family member’s death | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q47 | Having a plan to follow traditions/practices | ‘I never forgot anything. . .I brought Holy Ash everyday’ | I have a plan to honour spiritual, cultural or religious traditions that my family member would want around dying, if any | Cog | Oblig | |
| Q48 | Discussing plans for traditions/practices with staff | ‘There was pressure. . .but one person at long-term care was really great at getting that in place. . .a priest that did come and gave my Mom her Last Rites’ | Care providers and I have discussed my wishes for cultural, religious or spiritual traditions around death, for example: prayers or blessings, opening a window for the spirit | Beh | Control | |
| Q49 | Feeling spiritual support is available | ‘The [staff] asked me. . .I had an idea of what I wanted. I brought the Minister in three times. . .the same Minister that I knew and there was some continuity there. . .I texted him all the time’ | I have someone to ask for help in planning spiritual, cultural or religious traditions around death if wanted | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q50 | Feeling life is complete | ‘I knew she was ready. She lived a good life and what she wanted to die’ | I feel that my family member’s life is complete, for example: they have no unfinished business | Aff | Oblig | |
| Q51 | Feeling spiritually supported | ‘I went to Synagogue that next year. . .I said to our Rabbi the other day ‘I felt different’. . . this overwhelming sense, like. . .I’m the head of my family. . .there’s just this emptiness’ | I have someone to talk to if I have concerns about the meaning of illness, death or dying | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q52 | Believing a spiritual relationship with the person with dementia can continue after death | ‘Their light kind of lives in everybody. . .There’s probably not a week that goes by that something doesn’t come up with my Mom as part of that conversation still’ | I feel confident that I can maintain a bond (i.e., connection) with my family member after they are gone, if I want to | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q53 | Feeling comfortable with existential beliefs | ‘He was a believer. . .there’s some comfort in sort of the thought that he felt he was going to probably a better world’ | I do not worry about where my family member will go when they die, for example: afterlife | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q54 | Planning ways to complete and value the person with dementia’s life | ‘I had thought about the memorial through the last year. . .I gave the Eulogy and that gave me a lot of satisfaction. . .just writing it helped me focus my feelings’ | I have a plan to remember my family member, for example: obituary, donation, sharing their belongings | Beh | Oblig | |
| Q55 | Accepting uncertainty | ‘You can’t plan 100%, but maybe just some conversations around what you may expect and. . .what’s normal could help people’ | I have accepted that I cannot plan everything for the future | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q56 | Believing you can adapt to a new identity | ‘In some ways it’s a relief. . .I mean my purpose was the kids and I worked. . .maintain a hobby. . .make an obvious effort to find something’ | I feel confident that I can adapt to a new life without my family member | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q57 | *Feeling life will have purpose after death | ‘You wake up in the morning and you don’t have a purpose. What do you do? Like the little birds have left the nest, the wife is gone. . .that’s it. That’s what you’re on earth for right’ | I feel that my life will have no meaning or purpose after my family member is gone | Aff | Adapt | |
| *Reverse worded item | ||||||
| Q58 | Feeling spiritually prepared for death | ‘I was calling God to take her. So she was in no more pain. She would not go hungry. She was not thirsty. She was in good hands and I was so happy. . . .when she died. . .I felt peace’ | Overall, I feel at peace with my family member dying | Global | Adapt | |
| Practical | ||||||
| Q59 | Arranging after-death services for the body | ‘We agreed that we would be cremated. . .have a plan in place that can be acted on’ | I have planned my family member’s burial or cremation with service providers, for example: funeral director, direct-deposition service, crematorium | Beh | Oblig | |
| Q60 | Arranging practices to close the person with dementia’s life | ‘I arranged a prayer service. . .you felt like you had done right by her. . .and by. . .yourself’ | I have planned my family member’s funeral, memorial or celebration service, if wanted | Beh | Oblig | |
| Q61 | Discussing after-death services with staff | ‘[Staff] made it clear that they needed to have arrangements made so that could be dealt with when he passed. They gave us a couple of options for local service providers. . .I was so thankful to have those arrangements in place’ | Care providers in the facility are aware of the services planned for my family member after death, for example: funeral home/direct-deposition | Beh | Control | |
| Q62 | Knowing how to contact family/friends after death | ‘Trying to get in touch with everybody….How do I get in touch with her friends who aren’t on email?. . .It would have been nice to have a list you know like you do when you have a baby coming? But. . . people don’t want to think about it’ | I know how to notify family and friends when my family member dies | Cog | Control | |
| Q63 | *Feeling concerned over family conflict after-death | ‘We had this fight. . .about giving up the Attorney of Property. And he did finally. . .I only had a narrow window to see what was going on with his accounts. . .’ | Our family does not agree on how our family member’s affairs should be settled, for example: financial, estate, legal | Aff | Adapt | |
| *Reverse worded item | ||||||
| Q64 | Knowing about after-death processes | ‘They told us right in the beginning. . .we give you two days to remove your contents, it wasn’t obnoxious or anything. . .’ | I understand the policies in the care facility for after my family member’s death, for example: removing belongings, final payments and timeline | Cog | Oblig | |
| Q65 | Organising legal affairs | ‘We had settled our wills some time ago. I mean all the practical things have been done’ | My family member’s legal documents are organised, for example: will, insurance, birth certificate | Beh | Oblig | |
| Q66 | Organizing financial affairs | ‘As much as you. . .as they get older, get all those things in order. Get all the account numbers, get all the passwords. Join all the accounts. . .so then there’s no problems or issues with getting access’ | My family member’s financial affairs are in order for after-death, for example: bank accounts, credit cards, pension payments, properties owned, investments, income | Beh | Oblig | |
| Q67 | Knowing about legal affairs | ‘We went in and we had Powers of Attorney drawn up for property and for. . . care. . .that. . .turned out to be a good move’ | I know who my family member’s power of attorney is for finances and care | Cog | Oblig | |
| Q68 | Knowing who to contact for support with affairs | ‘Luckily, they had also an accountant, so we were able to pull some stuff from the accountant. The accountant would flag some stuff, ‘we need this, this and this too for taxes’ | I know who to contact if I need help managing my family member’s affairs, for example: legal, financial | Aff | Adapt | |
| Q69 | Knowing how to settle an estate | ‘The State Departments and Trust companies. . .People aren’t even aware of that stuff. . .this was the first time I’d gone through all that. . .it’s a struggle’ | I understand the process for settling my family member’s estate after-death, for example: notifying government agencies, closing bank accounts | Cog | Oblig | |
| Q70 | Feeling confident you can manage your household affairs | ‘To have to worry about your finances on top of everything else that’s just an added stress. . .I was fortunate enough not to worry about any of that’ | I feel confident I can manage my personal affairs after my family member is gone, for example: enough money to pay bills, ability to move homes if needed | Beh | Adapt | |
| Q71 | Feeling a sense of control | ‘Every decision I made, it just felt so good that everything worked out just the way I wanted’ | I feel in control of my life | Aff | Control | |
| Q72 | Planning for new identity | ‘I’d say I’m in transition in some ways. . .trying to downsize’ | I am planning for my future after my family member is gone | Beh | Adapt | |
| Q73 | Feeling practically prepared for death | ‘We had settled everything years ago. . .everything was set’ | Overall, I feel prepared to manage my family member’s affairs after they are gone | Global | Oblig | |
Preparedness traits. Beh: behaviour; Aff: affective; Cog: cognitive; core concepts; Control: managing the situation, maintaining a sense of control; Oblig: fulfilling obligations; Adapt: adapting to loss.
Indicators were translated into a pool of potential questionnaire items three based on participant’s direct quotes and aimed to adequately sample the perceived three core concepts, three underlying traits and four domains of preparedness.
Figure 3.Phase 2 Delphi-survey item flow.
Source: Moher et al.[43]
Phase 3 findings: final questionnaire items (n = 30).
| Medical preparations ( | |
|---|---|
| 1 | I believe I understand my family member’s current health status. |
| 2 | I believe I know what changes to expect as dementia advances, for example: |
| 3 | I understand I may be faced with decisions such as: transferring to hospital, treating infections. |
| 4 | I believe I know what treatments my family member would choose. |
| 5 | |
| 6 | |
| 7 | I have discussed end-of-life care preferences with the |
| 8 | |
| 9 | I understand that dementia (and Alzheimer’s) is a condition |
| Relationships and personal preparations ( | |
| 10 | I believe I can carry out my responsibilities, for example: decision-maker, companion, advocate. |
| 11 | I would like to be more involved in planning care with health care providers. |
| 12 | I accept that I am doing my best for my family member. |
| 13 | I have someone to go to for emotional support about my family member’s health. |
| 14 | |
| 15 | |
| 16 | I am making the most of my time with my family member, for example: by saying what I need to say to them. |
| 17 | |
| 18 | I am spending time reflecting on my family member’s life, for example: by sharing stories. |
| Spiritual preparations ( | |
| 19 | I have a plan to honour traditions or |
| 20 | I have discussed our family’s practices or traditions with health care providers, for example: privacy, prayers, opening a window. |
| 21 | |
| 22 | I worry about having purpose in my life after my family member |
| 23 | |
| Practical preparations ( | |
| 24 | My family member’s affairs are in order, for example: decision-maker, will, banking, credit cards, insurance. |
| 25 | I have someone I can contact if I need help managing my family member’s affairs. |
| 26 | I know how to notify family and friends when my family member dies. |
| 27 | After-death services are arranged for my family member such as: burial or cremation. |
| 28 | I believe I can manage my personal affairs after my family member |
| 29 | I am aware of after-death policies I will need to follow, for example: moving belongings in long-term care. |
| 30 | I am thinking about memorials appropriate for our family such as: gathering, funeral, celebration, private time. |
Bolded words were revised based on the pilot-test and cognitive interviews.
Indicates items met partial criteria for selection in the Delphi-survey and were retained from the pool by the authors to adequately address all preparedness core concepts, domains and traits.