| Literature DB >> 30956803 |
Leanne Jo Holmes1, Janelle A Yorke2, Caroline Dutton1, Stephen J Fowler1,3, Dorothy Ryan4.
Abstract
Introduction: People with severe asthma experience unpredictable daily symptoms requiring an intense treatment regimen impacting on health-related quality of life (QoL). Sexuality contributes to this, yet there is a dearth of research exploring intimacy in people with severe asthma. We aimed to explore the patient's perception of the impact of severe asthma on intimacy, establish their information needs and their perceived role of the healthcare practitioner.Entities:
Keywords: Asthma; psychology
Year: 2019 PMID: 30956803 PMCID: PMC6424302 DOI: 10.1136/bmjresp-2018-000382
Source DB: PubMed Journal: BMJ Open Respir Res ISSN: 2052-4439
Superordinate and subordinate themes
| Superordinate themes | Theme 1 | Theme 2 | Theme 3 | Theme 4 |
| Subthemes | An overwhelming exhaustion | Pressure to perform | Self-loathing | Previous experience |
| The ‘third party’ | Self preservation | Acceptance of self | A taboo topic | |
| Palpitations and paramedics | A problem shared | Carer vs lover | The ideal scenario | |
| Adaptation and experimentation | ||||
| Practical difficulties | ||||
Physical intimacy; subthemes and direct quotations
| Physical intimacy | |
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| ‘… if I was tired I wanted to go up to bed. I’ll be thinking, ‘right I might go up to bed and get some sleep here’, you know rather than that [implying intimacy] at the time. Until people have not had some sleep it’s hard to explain how bad it is!…This was hard for me to try explaining to my partner; she thought that … I was pushing her away. I wasn’t’ (ID1/M/34) |
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| ‘My Bricanyl pump‘s… a big part of our relationship as well, we have to manoeuvre the pump around the actions in the bedrooms. There’s times when he has to hold the pump, so it’s like three people in the relationship’ (ID5/F/32) |
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| ‘Then you get to that peak where I basically feel like I’m going to die, if you know what I mean… I’m getting light headed because your body’s doing all sorts and your heart’s racing. There were some scary times to the point where [my partner said], “we’ll have to phone the ambulance”, I’ll [say] “No, are you mad?” We can’t do that, when they say, “well, what happened, what have you done to her?” … But I do have panics’ (ID12/F/48) |
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| ‘I have now noticed that I can’t take the weight on my chest; so we’ve experimented. And all I can say is thank God for cushions and pillows, because you can sort of wedge yourself upwards and help with different positions which are comfortable for your chest basically. And it is experimentation’ (ID9/F/47) |
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| ‘There’s certain parts that you do like, you know, intimate things that you have to be really careful about because obviously they’re restricting your airways and you can’t breathe’ (ID13/F/59) |
Emotional intimacy: subthemes and direct quotations
| Emotional intimacy | |
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| ‘It’s like, … with the tiredness side and with the chest side, … you sort of do have to think about it a lot more and … feel under pressure yourself that you need to perform’ (ID6/M/45) |
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| ‘Honestly, I’ve even said, “(male name), if you want to go out, … and find yourself someone just for… one night and just enjoy yourself I will give you the permission to”, because I feel really guilty’ (ID10/F/46) |
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| ‘Like a massive weight was lifted for me, so yeah! Because I was trying to hide things from her and make excuses about going to bed early and so on and I didn’t have to. She fully understood then, and she was by my side …and its something we’ve grown to live with together’ (ID1/M/34) |
Image of self; subthemes and direct quotations
| Image of self | |
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| ‘I look in the mirror and I just don’t see myself anymore, you know what I mean? I just …see someone else. It just doesn’t look like me. My face and a big double chin, and all that, it depresses me’ (ID10/F/46) |
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| ‘I still love you’, he said, ‘because it’s the person inside, not the outside’. ‘That’s just you’, he said, ‘you are inside there, fighting to come out all the time’ …; and that’s what he’s always said about me, I’m a fighter’ (ID9/F/47) |
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| ‘I love him as my lover, but I struggle with him as my carer… One minute they're wiping your bum and then the next minute you're ripping each other's clothes off. It does vary’ (ID5/F/32) |
The role of the healthcare professional: subthemes and direct quotations
| Role of the healthcare professional | |
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| ‘when I had that couple of sessions with the counsellor that time I actually brought it up, and I thought the counsellor was going to run out of the room screaming!’ (ID9/F/47) |
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| ‘No one EVER has even asked me how this affects me never! Ever…not even my GP … I think that’s a taboo area?’ (ID3/M/53). |
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| ‘Not when you're ill, because …you just want to get out and get home, but like in a routine appointment. I think …the specialist nurses are more close to you than the GP or even the consultant, you know…they see you more regular and you're comfortable with them’ (ID5/F/32) |