| Parent Engagement with School NursesParents as a barrier to referral |
“But I’ve said to parents, just from asking for consent, to just speak to Eat Well Move More and see what they’re about and just have a bit more information about it. But they don’t want it, it’s just you get completely shut down”
“[School Nurse relaying conversation with parent] “I think we’ll sort it out on our own because he’s doing a bit more exercise, he’s cutting down on the crisps and stuff”…So that’s it, it stops”
“But you’re failing that child in a way aren’t you. And the referral to Eat Well is stopped because there’s no parental consent, so you can’t… we see them in drop ins and things and healthy plate and healthy eating and give them the leaflets, but…”
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| Challenge of engaging parents and children as a unit |
“SN2: I think the issue with that is though, it’s no good just having the children, you do need parents on board as well, and then they’re going through the same process really”
“SN1: Well I think the children probably would have more impact on the parents than we would”
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| Parents as facilitators |
“But again it’s hard because that child is not… or young person is not in control of the cooking at home. And I’m guessing that along with overweight children you’ve probably got overweight parents, so it’s not just about impacting that one child it’s about trying to get the whole family on board”
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| Child autonomy |
“But I think they come very positive and want some help, but I think it’s then their ability to take that forward, which I suppose is about the adolescence and, you know, whether their brain works really about they want to do it but they can’t”
“Yeah, they’re thinking about body shape and how they feel about themselves”
“meals at home aren’t very healthy and what choice have they got about cooking…you go shopping with mum…and say, oh I’d like that and can we try that, but that’s quite hard for… 11, 12 year old if mum is very, you know, right we’ll buy this, this and this, and you have this Monday, this Tuesday…” |
| Child competency | “Because there’s a bit of an issue there around giving competency to a 13 year old isn’t there?”
“…there’s an option [to challenge a parents refusal of HPV vaccine], … but with diet it would be slightly different isn’t it because… if the child wants to address health needs then there should be an option available to them”
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| NCMP letter |
“I think there is a stigma attached to it, the fact that some children are getting ‘fat letters’ and in actual fact in that parents eyes their child hasn’t got a weight issue”
“…I’ve had parents come and see me at drop ins or ring me up saying, who do you think you are saying my child is overweight? And it’s quite confrontational really”
“But I think in a lot of ways it’s not really useful to our service that we are being sort of tarred with the nurses that call their children overweight, and it’s creating a bit of a barrier…”
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| Closing the feedback loop |
“The only thing that I find sometimes a little bit frustrating is that you don’t have any feedback as to how well the programme went; did the family or child lose weight or didn’t they attend; that’s the only criticism I would have for the programme”
“… sometimes it would be nice just to have like a letter to say, completed a 6-week programme or a 10-week programme and this is the outcome, really”
“it would be nice to know, are they attending,…but we wouldn’t know the outcome unless it sort of comes back to us or we chase the family up to see whether they actually went, and what the outcome was at the end”
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