| Cross-cutting themes | Time and enabling resources | “need to be in a positive way curious, be brave and move on your discomfort area.”“The first meeting was in my home…I happened to have pictures on my computer and started from the wedding picture of my mother and father. I was there as a little child and then later sick in a wheelchair. I showed pictures from my entire life span. They were very interested in me and my home. We spoke about the legislation and aid facilities. Then we sat around the kitchen table and had coffee and tea…They were interested in my confectionery…The discussion was as if we were old friends…There was a social work student in the team and she brought up to conversation about disability services, personal assistants and transport services.”“being aware-in the moment.” |
| Phase 1: The preliminary work | Preparation | “Because of this preliminary work we understood our clients a bit better.”“I noticed that they had done a lot of work in advance in preparing themselves into the meeting.” |
| Student self-reflection | “Sometimes thinking about our lives and our past isn’t easy thing to do and when you have to talk about those things to a stranger that’s more difficult.”“When I meet people from other countries I can try to look at things through their eyes. It’s quite comforting.”“Past is part of you Things that create your future What is truly you” |
| Phase 2: Elements of empowerment | Life story | “We went through my whole life span and sickness history. In the second meeting they asked me what I would do if I had one healthy day. Whether there is something I have missed and would like to do?…In this point I had a very strong feeling that I have pulled through so many bad things and will survive in the future.”“We went through my life and were looking for its empowering elements. It was a very positive process. The entire day I felt that I had been in my past and I was amazed how many good things we had found from there. And in the everyday life you fight with those small negative things.…In fact, the meetings were very empowering because I had to speak out the things that empower me.” |
| Compassionate care | “I was astonished by the fact that we did not know each other in advance and were total strangers without any earlier care contact. We started from an empty table. First I tried to tell them about the organization. But they said they are interested in me and my story. Well, I had plenty of material from my life that I had worked and they were extraordinarily interested in it. I had pictures and a written story through the pictures. And the students were asking: tell more about this.…Goodness, it was a powerful experience to me and also the students. In such a short period something grew up that cannot be explained in words. It was a deep consensus; we understood the message of the meetings, although we did not plan it in advance.”“The basic for all is in a human encounter…I think us all (service users) and (students) reached this. Although we came from different cultures we found the core, the humanity. We all want to become heard and acknowledged. If professionals dare to throw themselves into this kind of encounter as these students did.…This constructs both parties…is this genuine love or care or sympathy?”“There was a warm climate in the meetings and we got to know each other very fast. The atmosphere was caring. They were interested in me and empathetic.” |
| Expert identity (by experience) | “I got a strong feeling to increase this type of work, if I will have healthy days left.…This is what empowers me. After all I did not die from the cancer although I have had it so many times. Every time I have been telling my life story to others I have received positive feedback. Actually I should do it more often and empower others.”“It was a good idea to arrange one meeting in the space on the cancer society as we spoke much about the patient organizations and they were interested in these. They noticed that I am involved in many of these things. We spoke how much joy and benefit I have had from it (patient organization) and hopefully the other way round. They also had concrete information from there.…For instance the Bulgarian student was very impressed.”“We also discussed about the peer support, its importance already in the diagnostic crisis phase.…A person must learn to recognize the situation and thus accept and adjust with the situation. And a strong push ahead.”“I have normally supported spinal injury patients in face-to-face meetings…group conversation (like we did in this project) makes the support much stronger as the conversation starts meandering around. And the stories we tell will survive. It is what touches people; that there is a human being behind the story.” |
| Learning through action | "dynamic programme, a river responding to an amount of rain and things around it ‘It’s language sensitivity I suppose, and coming across well in you know, not just with your peers and your colleagues but also with a diverse range of service users.”“I actually think some of the pictures didn’t need the words because the pictures told the story themselves.”“I have the same feeling than others. Before this I have not realized how important certain things in my life are. During the meetings these were repeated and were also summarized in students’ displays in the final exhibition.…I have been wondering, how we came to such a common understanding as we spoke different languages.”“You are going to a foreign country is almost like going into a hospital and not knowing and not understanding the language and that is a very good way of putting it.”“They put significant efforts to crush the barrier “lecturer–student”. It was example for management with delegation of rights and responsibilities to us. It reflects my idea for cooperating and for me it was pleasure to be part of such work-model.”“Yes, they were very skilled. They ensconced themselves at the situation of a faint-hearted 8 years old child when I told my story. It was kind of a drama that we created and wrote together. This type of experience does not take place even in any good therapy…their competences for working were on that level.”“I am trying to work in a way that we all bring something to the table to help, because we all have something that we can bring to the table”“What I have learned…is that people are just people, where as we express things in our own language in different words, but the feelings are the same. We all feel love and pain and we are afraid, we have the need for belonging and friendship. So I think we all need the same things. |
| Phase 3: The expected outcomes | Patient in control | “As well it makes you focus less on the actual illness the person has…there’s a lot more in the equation than just this sick person, this is their illness, this is their symptoms.”“Come and walk with me See the change in yourself Let me walk with you” |
| The changed student | “it has made me want to push myself to achieve high levels of education but to also always make time for family and friends and to treasure these moments and to constantly create new memories. It also made me to reflect on my life so far and I believe I have been truly blessed in life so far.”“Now I see everything in different way and am grateful for every moment there. In the future I will use every method and every word to be more helpful to the patients.”“I am trying to work in a way that we all bring something to the table to help, because we all have something that we can bring to the table”“I think from talking to the clients is that level of awareness and that insight you get from their lives, that it’s definitely going to affect the way you talk to people. It’s like when you look at a photo, it’s just so much history behind it, it’s the same with people you’d see every day passing by. There’s just so much history there. You can never make assumptions about anything. I think that’s definitely already a change that I see in myself.” |