| Literature DB >> 29136009 |
Jenny H Ledikwe1,2, Nankie M Ramabu2, Lisa P Spees2,3, Scott Barnhart1, Conrad Ntsuape4, Bazghina-Werq Semo1,2, Kathleen E Wirth2,5,6.
Abstract
Unprotected sexual intercourse after undergoing voluntary medical male circumcision but prior to complete wound healing can lead to major adverse events including HIV acquisition. To better understand perceptions related to early resumption of sex prior to wound healing, 27 focus group discussions were conducted among 238 adult men, women, and community leaders in Botswana. Median age among all participants was 31 years of whom 60% were male and 51% were either employed and receiving salary or self-employed. Only 12% reported being currently married. Pain, not risk of HIV acquisition, was perceived as the main adverse consequence of early resumption of sex. In fact, no participant mentioned that early resumption of sex could lead to an increase in HIV risk. Demonstrating masculinity and virility, fear of losing female partners, and misperception about post-operative wound healing also played key roles in the decision to resume sex prior to complete wound healing. Findings from this study highlight a potentially widespread lack of awareness of the increased risk of HIV acquisition during the wound healing period. Strengthening post-operative counseling and identifying strategies to discourage the early resumption of sex will be increasingly important as older men and HIV-positive men seek voluntary medical male circumcision services.Entities:
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Year: 2017 PMID: 29136009 PMCID: PMC5685600 DOI: 10.1371/journal.pone.0186831
Source DB: PubMed Journal: PLoS One ISSN: 1932-6203 Impact factor: 3.240
Fig 1Map of selected communities and stratified sampling schema of focus discussion groups among men, women and community leaders according to age and circumcision status, Botswana, July to November 2013.
Descriptive characteristics of 238 men, women, and community leaders who participated in 27 focus group discussions across four communities in Botswana.
| N | (%) | ||
|---|---|---|---|
| Location | |||
| Gaborone | 69 | (29%) | |
| Maun | 51 | (21%) | |
| Molepolole | 58 | (24%) | |
| Palapye | 60 | (25%) | |
| Age, years, median (IQR) | 31 | (24, 38) | |
| Male gender | 143 | (60%) | |
| Highest level of education completed | |||
| Primary or less | 34 | (14%) | |
| Secondary | 122 | (51%) | |
| Certificate level | 42 | (18%) | |
| Diploma | 30 | (13%) | |
| Degree | 10 | (4%) | |
| Current relationship status | |||
| Never married | 78 | (33%) | |
| Dating and living together | 42 | (18%) | |
| Dating, but not living together | 79 | (33%) | |
| Married | 29 | (12%) | |
| Divorced, separated or widowed | 10 | (4%) | |
| Religious affiliation | |||
| Christianity | 207 | (87%) | |
| Badimo | 9 | (4%) | |
| No religious affiliation | 17 | (7%) | |
| Other | 5 | (2%) | |
| Employment status | |||
| Employed and receiving a salary | 64 | (27%) | |
| Self-employed | 67 | (28%) | |
| Unemployed | 76 | (31%) | |
| Student | 31 | (13%) | |
| Occupation | |||
| Professional or managerial | 41 | (31%) | |
| Skilled worker | 48 | (36%) | |
| Unskilled worker | 41 | (31%) | |
| Other | 2 | (2%) | |
IQR, interquartile range
aPercentages may not sum to 100% due to rounding.
b25th and 75th percentiles
cTraditionally circumcising ethic group
Early resumption sex following voluntary medical male circumcision (VMMC) from the perspectives of 238 men, women, and community leaders in four communities in Botswana.
| Row | Theme | Focus Group Discussion | Representative quotation |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Painful sex as a deterrent to early resumption of sexual activity | Women, 31 to 49 years, Gaborone | It is a difficult situation…the problem is that at an older age, men think a lot about sex. After circumcision, before the wound has fully recovered, men are likely to have strong desires to have sex with their partners. This results in them going through much pain. |
| 2 | Uncircumcised men, 31 to 49 years, Molepolole | As a guy, I believe you know that you can’t survive that long without wanting to do a little something [sex]. Now imagine when you get an erection and you have those stitches, I just can’t imagine the pain and like I said, six weeks of no sex is torture. | |
| 3 | Circumcised men, 31 to 49 years, Palapye | If you were able to withstand the pain for an hour, that is what I call initiation. If you were able to withstand that pain in the morning after sex tore the sutures apart, you are a real man. We men are loose in conduct…we fail to just abstain for six weeks. I blame us who have circumcised because we keep telling them [uncircumcised men] that it [sex] is painful and it tears the sutures; but if you feel the pain, just get off the bed, put your feet on the floor, and the coldness from the floor will make you forget about the pain. | |
| 4 | Circumcised men, 18 to 30 years, Molepolole | In some instances, I have seen guys who tried to have sex after two weeks and they were forced to go back to the hospital | |
| 5 | Demonstration of masculinity and virility | Uncircumcised men, 31 to 49 years, Gaborone | As men our behaviors are diverse, some men cannot imagine six weeks of not engaging in sexual activities. I feel if the wound took a shorter period of time to heal, things would be better. |
| 6 | Circumcised men, 31 to 49 years, Maun | Some are impatient or should I say they are addicted. Sex is very addictive in the sense that if you are used to having sex regularly some men become anxious at that thought [of abstaining for six weeks], because there is a belief that if you go for long without sex you may go crazy … they say the ‘sack’ [testicles] will drive you crazy! | |
| 7 | Uncircumcised men, 18 to 30 years, Palapye | The other issue is six weeks. It is a long time and men wonder whether they can afford to stay for that long without doing anything sexual because the nerves or veins may block in one way or the other. | |
| 8 | Circumcised men, 18 to 30 years, Palapye | There are men with high libido and high sex drive, who want to have sex every day. They think they are strengthening their bodies. If they think of going for such a long time without doing anything sexually, they cringe. | |
| 9 | Fear of losing female partners | Circumcised men, 31 to 49 years, Palapye | When we think of circumcision most of us start having thoughts of other men taking our women whilst we are recuperating. The woman will also feel sexually starved, and I will think that so-and-so [another man] will take my girl because he has being following her and he may have even encouraged me to circumcise. |
| 10 | Circumcised men, 18 to 30 years, Maun | If my friend goes to circumcise, I will be surprised and say to him that “you have gone to circumcise and I am going to sleep with your girl”. That is one of the issues that scares men, these six weeks. There is a high possibility of losing a girl in that six weeks. Men are afraid that they [other men] will take their women. | |
| 11 | Women, 31 to 49 years, Gaborone | Men may think that women are likely to cheat on them whilst they are still in the six weeks healing period. | |
| 12 | Circumcised men, 18 to 30 years, Palapye | During the recuperation period, woman may go and look for something [sex] somewhere else because of loneliness. | |
| 13 | Misperceptions about post-operative wound healing | Women, 18 to 30 years, Gaborone | It does not even take long to heal. One of my friends took just two weeks or even less to heal. |
| 14 | Women, 18 to 30 years, Gaborone | You do not take the whole month with the wound…it takes about two weeks to heal. I really do not understand what they are scared of, basically yes it is painful, but after two weeks I think they can assume sex. | |
| 15 | Women, 31 to 49 years, Maun | Men are worried about the time they are given before they can have sex, if I am not mistaken it’s a month. | |
| 16 | Uncircumcised men, 31 to 49 years, Maun | From what I have observed and heard, when we are discussing these things as men, we only focus on negatives like it is painful, things like you are going to spend three weeks without having sex and stuff like that. Those are the main things that we talk about. | |
| 17 | Influence of women to promote post-operative abstinence | Circumcised men, 31 to 49 years, Gaborone | I told her that I was instructed from the hospital not to be engaged in any sexual activities and should stay [abstinent] for a specific period. |
| 18 | Women, 31 to 49 years, Palapye | I have been with my partner for six years. In 2010 he went to be circumcised. He never gave me any troubles though at times before he could heal he would attempt to lure me in to having sex with him and I would tell him to take it easy as he is yet to heal. | |
| 19 | Women, 31 to 49 years, Gaborone | I think after circumcision, if you stay together with your partner, there should be a certain way you care for him. You sleep in separate beds to avoid contact…if there is contact there would be erection, hence more pain caused by the sutures tightening | |
| 20 | Women, 31 to 49 years, Palapye | Yes, you will hear someone saying ‘Hey I am so horny’ then you just have to tell him to persevere until he has recovered | |
| 21 | Women, 31 to 49 years, Maun | When I met my current man, I asked him to go with me for testing. When we got there they encouraged him to get circumcised. We discussed the issue and he did not refuse and he went to get circumcised. I used to visit him to check on him…I never spent a night at his place until the wound was completely healed. He is now fine. | |
| 22 | Women, 18 to 30 years, Palapye | When you are living together in the same house it is difficult…I put a sanitary pad on and told him that I was having my period. | |
| 23 | Linking VMMC to the post-partum period to promote post-operative abstinence | Circumcised men, 18 to 30 years, Gaborone | It might be easier if you get your partner pregnant and then while on confinement, you get circumcised so that the both of you can wait six weeks. |
| 24 | Molepolole Leaders | I look at this issue and think of confinement. When my wife had her first child, I had to stay away from her for three months without having sex and I believe that is what most men have experienced. My question now is, if that was possible, what makes us now think that 6 weeks is a long time. All I can say is men are just fronting their lustful desires instead of being worried about their health | |
| 25 | Women, 31 to 49 years, Palapye | I have a younger brother who told me that six weeks is a long time, but I reminded him that he has children and much as he was able to wait for his woman during confinement he should do likewise about circumcision. | |
| 26 | Infant male circumcision to eliminate post-operative abstinence concerns | Women, 18 to 30 years, Molepolole | Maybe the reason they do not circumcise when they are older is because they feel the six weeks they have to wait before resuming sex is long; because they are reluctant to do it when they are older, let’s do it at birth. |
| 27 | Circumcised men, 31–49 years, Palapye | When you are older circumcision is a daunting task…it is best if they are circumcised when they are young because then they are still innocent. | |
| 28 | Women; 18 to 30 years, Palapye | I suggest that they get circumcised at a younger age because if they are already sexually active or living with a girlfriend; it won’t be easy to abstain during the recuperating time. I think it will be best to circumcise them when they are still young. |