| Parent refused | Baby’s father refused | 9 |
| • The father refused. (8 responses)• I really want but my husband does not want to hear anything about it. (1 response) | |
| Baby’s mother refused | 5 |
| • His mother refused. (4 responses)• My wife is refusing to bring him to the clinic. (1 response) | |
| Someone else refused | Wider family refused | 4 |
| • My mother-in-law refused. (2 responses)• My in-laws are against the idea. (2 responses) | |
| SUBTOTAL | | 18
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| Son still too young | Too young to undergo procedure | 12 |
| • He is still too young. (9 responses)• It is still too early to circumcise him. (2 responses)• It is too early; he is only 6 days old. (1 response) | |
| Too young to be taken out in public | 4 |
| • My baby is too young to be moved around. (2 responses)• My baby is too young to mingle with the public. (2 responses) | |
| SUBTOTAL | | 16 |
| Fear of harm | Fear of immediate harm | 11 |
| • It is too painful. (4 responses)• The mother is afraid it may not go well. (1 response)• It’s my first child. What if it doesn’t go well? (1 response)• I do not want any sleepless nights. (1 response)• My wife fears that the wound will take long to heal. (1 response)• I am worried about what will happen to the removed foreskin. (1 response)• The time for him to get circumcised has already passed. (1 response)• It will ruin my marriage. (1 response) | |
| Fear of future harm | 3 |
| • His peers will laugh at him when he is grown up. (2 responses)• It might create problems for him in future. (1 response) | |
| SUBTOTAL | | 14 |
| Son to be circumcised later | Near future | 8 |
| • I will come after his umbilical stump has fallen off. (3 responses)• I will bring him after 6 weeks. (2 responses)• I will come later; I first need to heal myself. (2 responses)• I will come after the pain from injections subsides. (1 response) | |
| Later | 3 |
| • Will come when the baby is older. (2 responses)• We will consider it when he turns 5. (1 response) | |
| SUBTOTAL | | 11 |
| Held up by decision making | Decision making in progress | 6 |
| • We need more time to think about it. (2 responses)• I am still thinking about it. (1 response)• As a mother, I cannot decide. (1 response)• My wife and I have not thought about it. (1 response)• I am still trying to convince my husband. (1 response) | |
| Still awaiting someone’s approval | 4 |
| • The father is not around so I cannot decide. (1 response)• I am still waiting for the father to give the go-ahead. (1 response)• I am still waiting for his grandmother’s approval. (1 response)• I still need to hear from my in-laws. (1 response) | |
| SUBTOTAL | | 10 |
| Male circumcision not part of family tradition | Male circumcision not practiced in clan | 4 |
| • No one has ever done that in our tribe. (2 responses)• It is not part of my culture. (2 responses) | |
| Father not circumcised | 3 |
| • I am not circumcised myself. (2 responses)• He has to be like his father, who is not circumcised. (1 response) | |
| Older brothers not circumcised | 3 |
| • His brothers are not circumcised. (3 responses) | |
| SUBTOTAL | | 10 |
| Son to decide for himself | Do not want to decide for him | 6 |
| • He will decide for himself when he grows up. (6 responses) | |
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| SUBTOTAL | | 6 |
| External influence | Wider family’s influence | 2 |
| • My older sister advised me not to. (1 response)• My mother-in-law discouraged me from doing so. (1 response) | |
| Health care workers’ influence | 2 |
| • My doctor said I should not do it. (1 response)• My aunt who is a nurse said we should not just accept new things. (1 response) | |
| SUBTOTAL | | 4 |
| Son to be circumcised at home | Grandmother to perform procedure | 3 |
| • His grandmother will circumcise him. (3 responses) | |
| SUBTOTAL | | 3 |
| Other | Various other reasons | 3 |
| • Baby died. (1 response)• We are no longer in Harare. (1 response)• I will only do it if it is for medical reasons. (1 response) | |
| SUBTOTAL | | 3 |
| TOTAL | | 95 |