| Literature DB >> 27305074 |
Kiah L Evans1,2, Jeannine Millsteed1, Janet E Richmond1, Marita Falkmer2, Torbjorn Falkmer2, Sonya J Girdler1,2.
Abstract
Increasingly, women simultaneously balance the roles of mother, parental carer and worker. However, individual role balance strategies among these working 'sandwich' generation women have not been thoroughly explored. Eighteen women combining these three roles were interviewed about their individual role balance strategies. Findings were identified through the framework analysis technique, underpinned by the Model of Juggling Occupations. Achieving and maintaining role balance was explained as a complex process accomplished through a range of strategies. Findings revealed the women used six within-role balance strategies: living with integrity, being the best you can, doing what you love, loving what you do, remembering why and searching for signs of success. The women also described six between-role balance strategies: maintaining health and wellbeing, repressing perfectionism, managing time and energy, releasing responsibility, nurturing social connection and reciprocating. These findings provide a basis for health care providers to understand and potentially support working 'sandwich' generation women.Entities:
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Year: 2016 PMID: 27305074 PMCID: PMC4909236 DOI: 10.1371/journal.pone.0157469
Source DB: PubMed Journal: PLoS One ISSN: 1932-6203 Impact factor: 3.240
Fig 1Within-role (hexagon) and between-role (Venn diagram) balance strategies
Fig 2Key challenges faced by working ‘sandwich’ generation women and associated role balance strategies
Example Quotes to Illustrate each Within-role Balance Strategy for the Mother, Parental Carer and Worker Roles.
| Mother | Parental Carer | Worker | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Living with Integrity | “If he wants to read a book, or if he wants to play a game, then I’ll tend to just drop what I'm doing.” | “I don’t see it as a burden. I see it as just part of life…. It fits in with our values.” | “I make sure I do my work from A to Z before I leave…. I make sure that I’ve left everybody really satisfied.” |
| Being the Best You Can | “It’s important for me when they open their lunch box to know… ‘Mum’s really thought about us.’” | “I’ve done my best to make decisions that I thought were in her best interests.” | “I really do feel when I go to work… I give everybody my all.” |
| Doing What You Love | “Time spent together in a positive way…. That the time is encouraging and uplifting and worthwhile.” | “A lovely opportunity for memory building…. I think that’s a really lovely thing to build into the family.” | “Every time I'm working I feel stimulated…. I get excited… I feel that I work just to remain stimulated.” |
| Loving What You Do | “Cherish the time… focus on those joys.” | “We’ve got time together…. Every day is precious.” | “It makes you feel great… it just gives you such a buzz.” |
| Remembering Why | “Being a mother is the most important role…, because at the end of the day, these are going to be the people who become parents in the future.” | “I feel that it’s really important for me to give mum the support that not only that I feel that she needs, but she feels that she needs.” | “If I was going to be away from the boys… it would be for something that was worthwhile…. I don’t just want to be wasting my time away from them.” |
| Searching for Signs of Success | |||
| Direct Feedback | “My daughter will quite often say ‘I'm so lucky that I’ve got a mum like you and thanks for everything you’ve done.’” | “Most times my mum will say ‘Thank you for doing that, it’s so nice to have you here, I really do appreciate it.’” | “I had my performance appraisal and [my manager] rated my work as ‘above and beyond on a regular basis.’” |
| Feedback from Outcomes | “The kids are all dressed and fed… or even getting in the pram and going for a walk is an achievement.” | “Peace that I’ve done my duty…. That I’ve given what I can give, in the situation that I have.” | “Sense of satisfaction of knowing that you’re able to do highly complex things.” |
| Feedback from Observation | “Your children are a product of you… they’re respectful, they’re polite, they’re good people, they know right from wrong, they’re caring, and they support each other as well. So that does heaps to help my confidence.” | “You can just hear it in mum’s voice. She wants to talk away, she just doesn’t want you to go…. And it’s just that feeling that … they appreciate you just being there. So that makes me feel really, really good.” | “I see clients grow, it’s just so beautiful to see…. And just to be that provider of information and to have that continuity of care over that timeframe is so privileged.” |
| Feedback from Others | “When they do well, no matter how old they are… and it’s not just about awards, it’s the recognition. It makes me feel ‘Well, I have achieved something. I’ve helped them get there.’” | “My aunty will say to me, ‘Mum said that you did this’…. And that’s when I know that mum’s had some enjoyment from it. But it’s not necessarily from mum, it’s from a third party.” | “Quite often other staff will comment ‘It’s really good how you handled that’…. Other people are obviously taking account of what you’re actually doing, above and beyond what you normally do.” |
Types and Examples of Activities to Maintain Physical Health, Mental Health and Wellbeing, Along with Common Maintenance Strategies.
| Domain | Types of activities and maintenance strategies |
|---|---|
| Physical health | Adequate sleep was achieved through earlier bed times or combatting accumulated sleep debt on the weekend through “a sleep in” or nap. |
| Nutritional needs were met when they allocated time for regular healthy meals, often through overlapping mealtimes with socializing and ensuring healthy ingredients were available. | |
| Meeting health needs included maintaining currency with health screenings and treatments by attending scheduled appointments with medical and allied health professionals. | |
| Formal exercise included group fitness classes, competitive sports and training sessions. Informal exercise was more common, and included deliberate walking or running and incidental exercise embedded in daily activities (for example pushing a pram was “a really good cardio-vascular workout”). | |
| Mental health | Counseling was described as “like taking my vitamins… I do have a very fast paced life, I do have a stressful job, all that stuff and I just need it… to unload. And sometimes you just need someone to tell you that it’s okay.” |
| Taking time away from other roles was achieved through following advice to “walk away for five minutes just to clear your head”, “close the door or just sit in your room”, retreat to a “tranquil” location or remember to “breathe.” | |
| Reflecting alone or with others reinforced feeling “I don’t think I'm alone, I think a lot of people are just like me”, facilitated problem solving by articulating barriers and potential solutions, and enabled acceptance of temporary challenges because they believed “this too shall pass, we’ll get through it.” | |
| Optimistic thinking involved seeing the opportunities and benefits of multiple role occupancy. Seeing the opportunities was exemplified with the literary reference “Pollyanna plays this Glad Game and it’s very good training … to think of your glass as being half full and not half empty” and the comment “aren’t we just lucky.” An example of seeing the benefits, or “that sense of dreaminess about why you do it”, in relation to her domestic responsibilities was “I love to be able to have that place where everyone knows it’s home and everyone comes together.” Other benefits of multiple role occupancy were role modeling positive behaviors, recognizing the value of intergenerational relationships, affording a better lifestyle and contributing to identity. | |
| Wellbeing | Passive leisure activities included watching television, reading and playing computer games, for example “I get my time to me in the evening. I tend to have a good hour or so before bed to play my Nintendo or read my books or chat to my husband or whatever it might be.” |
| Creative leisure hobbies comprised sewing for pleasure, playing piano and painting. | |
| Social leisure interests took place with friends or family, and included watching movies, attending book clubs and other “activities that I enjoy the most—like going to the beach with the family and unwinding.” | |
| Pampering as a form of leisure included hair appointments, facials, manicures, massages and foot soaks. Pampering activities were described as “my treat”, “it’s one of those things that I feel that I have to really do for me to maintain my sanity” and “it kept me balanced… It kept me being me… It kept me being a good everything.” |