| Literature DB >> 24959574 |
Sasha A Fleary1, Robert W Heffer1.
Abstract
The purpose of this study was to explore the continuing impact of growing up with an ill sibling on well siblings' late adolescent functioning. Forty late adolescents (M age = 18.78, SD = 0.83), who identified themselves as growing up with an ill sibling, completed a semistructured interview, demographic questionnaire, Personality Assessment Screener, and My Feelings and Concerns Sibling Questionnaire. Participants reported clinically significant problems on some PAS scales, and gender differences were found for acting out and alienation. Significant relationships were reported for communication and social withdrawal and alienation. Both positive and negative themes about the experience were elicited from the responses in the semistructured interview. This study provides evidence for some lingering negative effects of growing up with an ill sibling on well siblings' late adolescent functioning. Additionally, evidence for siblings' development of positive characteristics that may act as protective variables as they face the stressors of late adolescence was also highlighted.Entities:
Year: 2013 PMID: 24959574 PMCID: PMC4041246 DOI: 10.5402/2013/737356
Source DB: PubMed Journal: ISRN Family Med ISSN: 2314-4769
Distribution of the PAS scores based on risk for problems and correlation with MFCSQ scores.
| PAS Scales | PAS Score Classifications |
Gender |
Inter-personal |
Intra-personal |
Communication | |||
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| Normal | Mild | Moderate | Marked | |||||
| Negative affect | 24 (60) | 0 (0) | 12 (30) | 4 (10) | 1.43 | 0.15 | 0.13 | 0.12 |
| Acting out | 18 (45) | 0 (0) | 14 (35) | 6 (15) | 22.54*** | 0.15 | 0.10 | −0.13 |
| Health problems | 21 (55.3) | 10 (26.3) | 6 (15.8) | 1 (2.6) | −4.14 | −0.06 | 0.12 | 0.27 |
| Psychotic features | 21 (53.8) | 0 (0) | 16 (41.1) | 2 (5.1) | 2.34 | 0.17 | −0.10 | −0.10 |
| Social withdrawal | 11 (29) | 0 (0) | 14 (36.8) | 13 (34.2) | 4.02 | 0.28† | 0.20 | 0.37* |
| Hostile control | 0 (0) | 22 (59.5) | 15 (40.5) | 0 (0) | −1.17 | 0.01 | −0.09 | −0.27 |
| Suicidal thinking | 32 (82) | 0 (0) | 3 (7.7) | 4 (10.3) | −2.02 | −0.01 | 0.11 | 0.05 |
| Alienation | 19 (48.7) | 14 (35.9) | 6 (15.4) | 0 (0) | −8.76** | 0.20 | 0.02 | 0.32* |
| Alcohol problem | 8 (20.4) | 26 (66.7) | 4 (10.3) | 1 (2.6) | 4.06 | 0.02 | 0.08 | −0.30† |
| Anger control | 12 (31.6) | 17 (44.7) | 8 (21.1) | 1 (2.6) | 4.57 | −0.02 | 0.20 | −0.10 |
| Total score | 12 (37.5) | 9 (28.1) | 9 (28.1) | 2 (6.3) | 6.56 | 0.43** | 0.27 | 0.15 |
Note. MD: mean difference; PAS: Personality Assessment Screener.
† P < 0.10, *P < 0.05, **P < 0.01, ***P ≤ 0.001.
Siblings' responses to the question “How has the disease affected your life?”.
| Theme |
| Quotation |
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| Positivea | ||
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| Awareness | 16 | |
| Emotional support for others | “She had more strength to overcome different things. We'd just look at people and see if they had an illness, we would see past that and see the person.” | |
| Health literacy/understanding | “I guess I'm more informed about what asthma is, and when other people have it I can sympathize with them. Not that I have it, but since I know what it is, I'm able to relate to people in that sense.” | |
| Financial support/responsibility | “We donate to the leukemia fund now, so it's definitely raised my awareness of the disease.” | |
| Sensitivity | “I'm more sensitive to it now, like when I hear “meningitis” it kind of snaps my neck and I'm like, whoa, what did you say? But then I have a testimony for it, in a small way.” | |
| Family/bonding support | 40 | |
| Scheduling | “We had to have a pretty strict schedule, but it united us as a family, cause we'd work together to get the schedule done and help my mom and all that.” | |
| Parental support | “My parents were really supportive, so that helped a lot.” | |
| Respect for sibling | “This disease probably makes me appreciate my brother more; it's pretty amazing he's alive. We've gotten really close since I've left for school.” | |
| Family teamwork | “It basically brought us closer together because we were constantly trying to take care of him, and not just one person could do all that. We all pitched in.” | |
| Sensitivity | “I'd say we're a lot more receptive to grief. I'd say we're a lot more sensitive than other families are.” | |
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| Negativeb | ||
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| Fear | 17 | |
| Heritability of illness | “Supposedly it's hereditary. But, like our kids wouldn't get it, but our grandkids might. So I guess that's a fear I have.” | |
| Inability to aid Sibling | “My biggest fear was that they'd have an asthma attack and I wouldn't be able to do anything about it.” | |
| Fear for sibling's future | “Just that he won't ever grow out if it. The doctors said he might, but then they said it's not like anything they've seen before, so that's kind of scary. That he could always be hurting. He doesn't know any difference.” | |
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| Regretc | 27 | |
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| Time spent with parents/family | “I wish I had gotten to hang out with my parents more.” | |
| Insensitivity to sibling | “I wish I wasn't so insensitive to her about it. That might offend her.” | |
| Jealousy | “I sometimes got jealous of her, because she got more attention from our mom and dad.” | |
| Change in family dynamic | “After she died, my dad has really changed, as far as showing any emotion. I think it hardened him as a person, and that's been the biggest change. Showing emotion is hard for him now.” | |
a“Sometimes good things come out of bad experiences. What would you say was good that came out of your sibling's illness?”
b“Looking back, what would you have want to happen differently about the experience?”
c“What were your biggest fears then?”.
Siblings' responses to the question “How has the disease affected your life?”.
| Theme |
| Quotation |
|---|---|---|
| Positive | 25 (62.5) | |
| Cautious about health | 10 (25) | “It did make me like more health conscious” |
| Empathy/compassion | 4 (10) | “…able to also relate with people that have siblings or who are struggling with illnesses … “Hey, I've been there and this is how, you know, I got through it, and you know there's a light at the end of the tunnel.” |
| Cautious about others health | 2 (5) | “like-being-it made, it made me be more precautious…I am really like precautious of little kids…” |
| Accepting of others | 2 (5) | “I'm more open to people… cause my sister would often tell me a lot of things…if she were to tell the people about it at school, they would like shy away from her…if people like tell me something about themselves, I'll just listen and accept them for the way they are.” |
| Aware of unpredictability of health | 8 (20) | “…guess it just kinda also makes you realize that you know life can't be perfect and so that you know you can't expect everyone to have perfect health” |
| Maturity | 9 (22.5) | “I think I am not as petty and I don't think of little things in a very big way and I don't overreact to situations the way a lot of teenage kids do” |
| Appreciate life | 7 (17.5) | “it is made me really thankful for being healthy, like I think about that everyday” |
| Brought family closer | 4 (10) | “I do wonder sometimes if our family would be as close as we are if it was not for…” |
| Knowledge | 4 (10) | “… it is raised my awareness about the, about the disease…and um just kind of help others to be aware of it I guess too” |
| Reinforce religion | 2 (5) | “guess the fact that uh, the doctors like gave him like a five percent chance and he pulled through…we are all like catholic so that's probably enforced that in my life” |
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| Negative | 7 (17.5) | |
| Overprotective parents | 1 (2.5) | “My mom's a little over protective now” |
| Responsibility for sibling | 3 (7.5) | “I think I probably a lot more protective over my little sister than I would have been” |
| Worry for the future | 2 (5) | “It's made me think about having kids and how scary it is” |
| Paranoia about sickness | 1 (2.5) | “…when I see them (others' children) running around and breathing a certain way, I'm like you should go check if they have asthma cause they probably do and one day you know, they will probably have an attack and you won't even know what to do and stuff.” |
| Indifferent | 8 (20)* | |
| No effect | 7 (17.5) | |
*One person was indifferent because they were later diagnosed with the same disease.
Siblings' responses to the question “How about now, do you have any fears or worries that stem from your sibling's illness?”.
| Theme |
| Quotation |
|---|---|---|
| No fears | 24 (60) | |
| Sibling's health | 8 (20) | “You know I probably worry for her more just knowing she only has one kidney and don't want to hurt that-don't want anything to happen to it” |
| Sibling's death | 4 (10) | “Um, I'm afraid that he's gonna die, really a lot sooner than I think he should…and that's kinda hard, he's like one of my best friends” |
| Disease worry | 4 (10) | “I guess I do kind of worry about like cancer, most people my age don't…but just in general I do” |
| Own future | 5 (12.5) | “That maybe I'll have a child that will have problems, I think about that a lot” |