"Well if he could see me now": the facilitators and barriers to the promotion of instrumental independence following spousal bereavement.

Older widows face challenges regarding domestic instrumental tasks and independence. We asked 21 British widows about traditional male tasks, pre- and postbereavement. We focus on 3 aspects. First, what changes occurred in instrumental independence following bereavement? A typology of 4 was identified comprising: dependent/independent; dependent/dependent; independent/independent; independent/dependent. Second, what was the nature of independence? Third, what factors promoted or hindered independence? These included familial factors, both as aids and barriers, financial security as an aid, and health as a barrier. The results highlight how successfully widows manage instrumental tasks and how their independence could be enhanced.