Early pregnancy loss: how do men feel?

One in five pregnancies (20%) end in miscarriage. A specialized early pregnancy loss clinic to provide dedicated medical advice and support was established at the Rotunda Hospital in July 2002. A qualitative pilot study was conducted in July 2002 to assess the emotional response of male partners and also to establish if sufficient support services are provided for them. Ten consecutive couples attending the clinic 6-8 weeks following early pregnancy loss were included in the study. The partners were asked to complete a questionnaire with open and closed questions and return in the envelope provided. Nine questionnaires were returned. The average age of men attended was 28.6 years (range 20-39). The feelings described by men were typical of the grief and bereavement process. All wanted more time for discussion with doctors. They felt marginalized and although they felt support services for their partner were adequate, they felt that more support services for male partners should be provided. Based on these research findings, the specialized early pregnancy loss clinic is being developed to partner's needs and expectations. The appointment letter sent to the women now specifically states that the partner is welcome to attend. Partners are now included in the consultation.